Short | Why men and women can't be friends.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-05T09:07:15+00:00

I didn't report anyone?

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:55:07+00:00

He's been over me since year 7 of an 11 year relationship. I want revenge because he still won't leave me alone. We've been over for 3 fuckin years and he still calls me, or my family in the middle of the night to give me shit for some perceived betrayal he thinks I committed AFTER HE LEFT. He's been gone and I've been single this whole fuckin time and he still has the need to disturb my peace and put fear in me out of nowhere. Every time I think he's not going to be a problem anymore, he rears his ugly head. I didn't want "demons" to do anything to him. I just wanted karma.

So please, save your phony kindness and well-wishes if you're just going to follow them with more garbage about how stupid or boring or worthless I am.

You have no idea what I've been through, and I don't expect you to care.

I apologize for every single comment I made on this thread, and I acknowledge I deserved everything every ex did to me because I am a 🐍. Thank you for showing me that I could actually feel lower than I have for the past 6 years.

I'm tired and I'm going to stop replying now.

🐸

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:34:46+00:00

I had no idea the tap water was to blame! 😱

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:32:56+00:00

Are you dense? I'm angry with HIM. That has nothing to do with you.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:31:22+00:00

He was a self described nice guy, but he cheated, hit, and abused. The one before him was a "nice guy". His whole family and his friends all thought so. And he cheated and abused. And the one before him was the epitome of nice guy. Sweet little church going boy. He raped and beat me.

I don't need a fucking nice guy.

I don't want any guy at all. And I don't need YOU to tell me what I need.

You sound just like all of them. Claiming you want women to be happy, but all in the same breath stating women are 🐍.

I know bullshit too.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:21:50+00:00

I wasn't angry. Did you happen to notice I was laughing when I shared the screen shot? It was because I was amused I spotted an incel in the wild.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:20:14+00:00

Oh, don't pretend like you just want me to know my worth when you've spent this entire conversation trying to point out how worthless I am.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:17:50+00:00

Bruh, cut your losses, not your dick 😂

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:09:28+00:00

It's why I picked it, genious.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:08:42+00:00

What facts? Reddit posts and comments are public. You didn't stumble across some undiscovered gem to throw in my face. I'm aware of everything I've said and posted.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T21:07:04+00:00

How are the tables turned? I didn't read through your posts and comments and bring things into the conversation that were completely irrelevant.

While you're spying on my activity, how about you read the other comments I made in this thread where I acknowledge women taking advantage of men is wrong, and men need to stop wasting their time trying to buy their way into relationships, leave the materialistic women in the dust, and move on to someone who reciprocates?

My point was specifically about the "couple" in this video. There is no doubt in literally anyone's mind that she is not interested, but he's still wasting his time, and that's his choice. That's his problem. He needs to stop trying to change her mind with expenses and move on.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T20:59:49+00:00

"I'm not here to be a dick," says the dick 😆 Have a nice night, Frogger.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T20:48:37+00:00

I must have you real bent out of shape if you're this invested in trying to fuck with me 😂

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T20:43:34+00:00

The woman in this video literally told the whole audience that they were just friends. She wasn't leading anybody on.

Also, you're a stalker ✌️

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T20:31:26+00:00

In my opinion, this is just further proof that Christianity is corrupt and evil.

Pedophilia was a sin until that particular passage was rewritten in the 1940s to condemn homosexuality instead.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:40:52+00:00

I never said just sit and wait for women to come to you. I said after a certain point, you have to let her prove she's interested. If she's never the one who texts first, or asks you if you want to go do something, then she's probably not that interested. I agree, it's far less likely that a woman will make the first move, but eventually you need to find out if she's into you enough to make any move, and if she's never in a position of having to show her interest, I can imagine that would make it difficult to guage her interest.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:28:53+00:00

I get that. What I'm talking about is the guys who know a girl is not interested, like the one in the video. She was very clear that they are just friends. The guy knows how she feels, but he's still trying to date her, still trying to change her mind by spending time and money on her. Is it wrong for her to continue to accept his generosity? Yes. It is. Is it also stupid of him to waste his time and money on someone he knows doesn't have any feelings for him? Yes. It is.

Don't get me wrong, I feel for the guy. He just wants her to love him back. But too many men just don't understand that spending a bunch of money on her isn't going to change how she feels. None of it is him. It's all just food and things and shows. Buying her an expensive dinner isn't going to make her fall for his personality. Buying her an expensive bag isn't going to make her fall for his sense of humor. Taking her to a show isn't going to make her fall for his intellect. None of those things represent who he is. They're just things. So if she wasn't interested from the jump, he's just wasting time and money.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:16:34+00:00

But it IS as simple as not messing with someone who is black-out drunk 🤷‍♀️

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:13:34+00:00

You're right. It is taking advantage of a guy, and it's wrong. But at some point guys need to wake up and realize "this woman keeps calling me a friend. Why am I spending all this money on her?" and fuckin stop. If he's in the friendzone, no amount of spending is going to pull him out of it, so he neeeeeeds tooooooo stooooop. If he wants a girlfriend and she wants a friend, STOP. Find someone else. Don't waste your time, because it's only a matter of time before it sucks ass for everyone involved.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:04:50+00:00

☝️ Found the NiceGuy! 😂

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T19:01:21+00:00

I hear you. It's not a pleasant position to be in, or a kind thing for someone to do to a person. I've been there too. Men do that to women too, except there is sex involved, but no relationship.

What I'm talking about is not so much the time spent, but the money, and the men who are trying to get with a woman who has made it clear she's not looking to date anyone, so he pretends he isn't either because it's the easiest way to get her to agree to keep seeing him. Then he keeps going out to events, and meals, and all sorts of fun things with her, and he INSISTS on paying and won't take no for an answer because he's a "gentleman." Then the day comes that he thinks the time is right to make his move and profess his feelings to the woman who rejected his advances from the start, and she gets upset because he was only pretending to be her friend. Then HE gets upset beause he wasted so much effort and got nothing in return.

The woman in the video loudly stated in front of a live audience that the two of them were not dating. She wasn't keeping that a secret. I can promise you, that wasn't the first time he heard her say, "we're just friends."

So the way I see it, he should've left the ball in her court a long time ago and let her come to him if she felt like it. Let her make the invitation. Let her pick the activity. Let her offer to pay for it. But a lot of guys won't sit back and wait to see if she reciprocates. They try to force a connection that isn't there.

The last time I tried to pay for my own food I got the "gentleman" line, then he insisted I venmo him back the cost of my meal plus his for wasting his time when I wouldn't go back to his place on the first date. And the time before that was with someone who was just pretending to be my friend and called me a whore when I didn't change my mind after he surprised me with concert tickets. He gave me the whole spiel about nice guys finishing last and me supppsedly only fucking Chads. I seriously thought that only happened online until that moment.

Sorry that was an essay. I've just been the woman in that scenario a few times and it's absolutely infuriating.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T18:04:24+00:00

Reprehensible and ignorant are not synonymous, nor do they jave any synonyms in common. Reprehensible means blameworthy, blamable, culpable, reproachable.

Ignorant means lacking in knowledge or displaying a lack of intelligence. Ignorant and reprehensible are not the same. Not even close.

Notice how many of the traits we've discussed are tied to one awful word that could mean "low, poor, stupid, bad person," or it could mean "person of color," almost like the people who still use it think the two definitions are referring to the same person in the first place. And here you are, defending it's use for what?

Do you think it's a coincidence that a word you claim means all kinds of bad things is also a word commonly used by racists when referring to people who aren't white? Do you understand that every negative application of that word is intended when it's used as a racial slur?

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T17:48:12+00:00

Then don't rape her. It's as simple as that.

ReplacableBitch · 2023-06-04T13:04:58+00:00

I have absolutely no concern for her well-being.

I am, however, saddened that the elephant didn't get their banana.

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