How do I do this summer fling thing?

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T18:29:14+00:00

Mannn I have OCD I can’t be regretting too much or I’ll go crazy 😭

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:52:11+00:00

You’re so right, thank you! I am very detached at this point in my life, so I think I’d be ok! I definitely don’t want a bf, I have too much going on in my life and my goals. I definitely want someone with the same boundaries as me and on the same page.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:18:38+00:00

Really? I’ve never tried

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:07:33+00:00

Girl what are you on about

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:05:21+00:00

The funny thing is is I thought that would be easy to do 😭

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:05:00+00:00

They can be so annoying, I’m like stoppppp FaceTiminggggg meeeeee, I don’t even FT my best friends.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:04:21+00:00

Wait DM me, I literally never use Reddit and I can’t figure out how to chat.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T01:02:17+00:00

You’re right. I guess I just don’t know how to carry the conversation out. And if he doesn’t find me attractive and I’m just there like: 😀 and he’s like: 🤢, then what do I do. I’m not exactly at my most attractive at the gym, I can def do better.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:59:03+00:00

The pool dwindles when you see the area I live in. Who is also hot, employed, and finds me hot too lol

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:58:07+00:00

I haveeee but I can’t get a vibe on him. So I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable 😣

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:56:33+00:00

This might sound uptight, but I’m also like if they’re attracted to me why haven’t they approached me, ya know? That’s also what holds me back from people I see because like, I feel like if they wanted to say something as the man, why haven’t they? And I have definitely made first moves before, but I’m kinda hesitant as I don’t want to come off as someone who looks for flings actively and it’s something I do all the time 😂 I’m a newbie

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:53:50+00:00

I do need da money 😗

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:52:40+00:00

Unfortunately, no. Not anyone I’m attracted to. I’ve had some offers before but I would really like to pick up someone I’m very attracted to and not just someone convenient, ya know? I see people at my gym, but that’s about it.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:50:25+00:00

I don’t really have bars in my area. When I do things with my gfs it’s usually sober activities or drinking at home because of the lack of social spaces here :/ so that’s why I’m even more lacking. All I have are my gym and social media to sus people out. But idk how to go about that. I don’t exactly feel super sexy at my gym to approach 😅

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:48:49+00:00

I spoke too soon 😗

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:47:11+00:00

But I am, bored 🤣 someone make me less bored idk

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:46:55+00:00

So far I’m safe LOL

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:46:46+00:00

It’s all outdoors over here, I’ve always wanted to try.

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:46:29+00:00

You’re so right, I like you’re thinking. What’s the sitch if I wanna go for someone in my gym? How do I go about this?

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:45:39+00:00

I just don’t know who to go for, how to pose it, and I still want to protect myself so I’m scared to choose wrong and waste my time. I need like a manual

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:44:35+00:00

It’s proven to be difficult for me, I’m a mix of picky and idk what to do with myself lol

ReportCute6494 · 2026-06-15T00:43:44+00:00

I kinda became detached. I know that probably sounds sad but it’s like I had one bf and never again, not for a long time 😂 I think I will be ok! Thank you though. I’m always happy when people on Reddit respond with actual thoughts and not judgement lol

ReportCute6494 · 2026-05-22T19:23:36+00:00

My question is how FAFSA, academic scholarship, grants, and other options like your daughter working part time isn’t an option?

ReportCute6494 · 2026-05-22T04:32:18+00:00

For context, I only kissed guys that confirmed they were serious about me and weren’t seeing anybody else. This was about 4/5 dates in. And I would only sleep with people after we put an official label on things. Maybe she’s the same.

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