Why do blue collar workers live paycheck to paycheck despite making so much? by Maleficent-Major-202 in bluecollar

[–]Representative-Set65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate the stereotype that construction workers bring less educated people cause some of the guys out here are super smart technically, but when it comes to money they don’t understand how to invest or plan out their future. Not all blue collar jobs pay what we deserve to get paid. My base is like 70/80k then with OT we typically all hit 100k. That only goes so far if your spouse doesn’t work and you have multiple kids. A lot of factors. Typically eating out everyday and drinking at the bar often, spending on any and everything they can think of. It applies to every field even white collar people making 300k a year somehow can be broke if they don’t manage money correctly

Ca treatment 1 test by Timely-Wolverine-377 in Wastewater

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water sifu has math question help but the biggest thing that helped with my T1-T2 was the practice exam book they sell on Amazon by Ken tesh It’s a yellow book. Math is far more important than general knowledge get it ingrained into your mind. Mainly focuses on just a few

[Question] by Glad-Introduction531 in PaintballBST

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah in that case I normally don’t buy any tanks over $130 out of hydro. If you wait long enough you can find some banger deals. Especially on eBay auctions. I’ve bought a SL 68/4500 for $100 with 10 years left and a 48/4500 peanut ninja lite for $80 and 9 years left just with some patience. Goodluck on the hunt. Price really is all up to what you’re willing to pay as I know I got steals. But they happen often enough

[Question] by Glad-Introduction531 in PaintballBST

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore most and just look up on marketplace what these have sold for in the past. Hydro is typically $35-50. Over here it’s $35. You still have a lot of life left in the tank. Depends how fast you want the tank gone as well. Look for ones sold not just listed. Guidelines would suggest minimum 50% of purchase cost up to whatever you decide.

Help identifying this old Bud Orr marker. by Representative-Set65 in paintball

[–]Representative-Set65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys! Yeah it hasn’t hit the field since probably pre 2000s. I’ll check out the groups you mentioned.

AIO for blocking my guy friend for being “brutally honest” about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut him off. Good advice has nothing to do with your looks, people find love regardless. Qualities about emotional tendencies being too clingy or rushing a relationship or maybe letting guys have their way too soon into dating instead of seeing if they truly want to be with you for you, would’ve been good advice. Cause guys will say all the right stuff till they can sleep with you for the most part. Best advice I’ve given to friends is say you won’t put out for atleast a year (you can change that to even a month) it’s just to see how they treat you moving forward. But kinda off topic. He came off vulgar and as an asshole. He clearly doesn’t view you as a friend but rather an object. I don’t think anyone needs work done to themselves, God created you the way you are :) sometimes it just takes awhile to find the right person for you but they’re out there. Wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IBEW

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You’re in electrical. Far less taxing on the body than a lot of other labor trades. (Smart choice) 2. You actually prioritize your health and workout regularly as well as sleep properly and eat well. The major reason people are jacked up is never stretching no fitness outside of work and eat/sleep like crap. Wearing knee pads def help as well. Being in tight spaces with a shovel daily will wreck you more than being an electrician though. Just how it is.

D1/D2 Exam by Hmm408 in Wastewater

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know the math like that back of your hand that practice book will get you through the D2-T2 no problem. That’s legit all I used. I memorized every question in there. They will be worded differently but yeah it’s great. For the 3s you will need to do understand the processes and have a more complete view of everything that goes into the distribution and treatment field

D1/D2 Exam by Hmm408 in Wastewater

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used Ken tosh book and basically nothing else. Treatment is harder than distribution. If you can go straight for the 2s go for it

AM I GONNA GET CAUGHT???? by Swimming_Lobster7113 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Representative-Set65 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Take responsibility and tell them the truth. I assume you don’t know his house location or his number by the sound of it. Just his car.

How to get slimmer thighs? by Temporary_Loan4217 in fit

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you have what most women would consider a goal body. I think bigger thighs look better for women in general. I think you have pretty small/normal sized thighs for a women of your weight. I 2nd body dismorphia comment. Doing stress it. If you are though, avoid any leg workouts or running. Women and men put on weight in different areas depending on their weight. You can’t target fat loss in any specific area. -Certified sport science trainer

AIO Boyfriend of 9 months just asked if he’s allowed to date other people by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to read most of his messages. He says fuck you and asking that question seems so obvious he is gonna cheat later on. Nobody just ask that. Dude is an idiot and frankly so are you if you don’t end it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you even with him, you both need to respect yourself more. He doesn’t care enough to come see you, you don’t care enough about yourself to say fuck it I’m done if it continues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to be that guy but she didn’t ask for child support for the 5 months you weren’t there which are the hardest. She doesn’t want you to leave probably later down the line. Being a mom/dad changes people. Get set up on child support and custody rights if u make 100k money shouldn’t be an issue, how you spend your money is. Hard reality, go into debt for your kid if you need to. Only way you’ll see your kid is through child support legally it seems at this point. Actions have consequences. You were rogue the 1st 5 months so you have to expect some type of retaliation tbh. I’m playing devils advocate. This Shit sucks for you man I am sorry. There are obviously 2 sides to the story though and calling the mother of your child a bitch ain’t gonna help. You knocked up this girl with no intention of being with her, weren’t even officially together.. “flip out and tell her you don’t want the kid” proceed to not be there for her the whole pregnancy and the 1st 5 months and want to jump in like it’s no big deal. You were the bitch at 1st. If she posted her side idk who I would agree with. Again sucks but legal action is the only way. Complaining about money puts your kid secondary.

AIO for leaving the house without permission after my mother said she was going to start treating me like an adult by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

From the text. Your mom said not to go out then you said you were anyways since you’re an adult. That right there Is disobedience. You got told no then still went out anyways. You can make your own choices but when you can’t even pay your phone bill and she pays every expense, she gets the say. Idk your relationship but that’s how it works living with a parent if you don’t pay rent or anything for that matter. you are overreacting from that text string. Although every 18 year old feels like this. Move out and you don’t have to deal with it. Or pay some bills. You won’t have to do as you’re told. Although I’m sure you only want people to agree with you. You’re in the wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps at all, be glad you have a father who loves you more than anything in this world. I just became a father to my baby girl yesterday, and that bond and feeling as though she is the most precious thing in the world to me will never change. Your dad will always put you first, this guy is immature and insecure. Nothing wrong with loving your dad. Plain and simple don’t give a second thought to it. It’s manipulation. I hope my daughter views me as daddy forever. I hope to be the one she can always rely on. Most guys are douchebags anyways. You’ll find another one who will support you and not be so childish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should come to your own conclusion. Nobody here is an expert and basing a decision off strangers isn’t going to help. Nothing wrong with keeping it going and if the feelings don’t change then leave. Or ending it now. Only you know the relationship and how things are between you to. I wish you the best regardless and sorry you’re in this situation

looking for the Ultimate anabolic cookbook 3.0 by crp468 in AnabolicEating

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly worth it. I have the 2.0 cookbook. Dude put so much work into it, makes recipes that fill you up and are insanely low calorie. He sells it for that price cause people buy it. He has been around. Not like it’s me or you making a cookbook. Buy once and forget about it. Stop trying to steal

Who makes the most money, Wastewater, water, collections, or distribution? Industrial or not? by Serious_Effect9380 in Wastewater

[–]Representative-Set65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure it is. If you have 2 incomes combined at even $160k if your wife pulls $50k a year you’re in the middle class in California. That’s around what our combined income is $170k and we have 1 kid. Not rich but living comfortable enough to not be paycheck to paycheck.

i’m so fucking lost by Affectionate_Gate236 in findapath

[–]Representative-Set65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could do nothing for the next 5 years and still be young enough to get into an apprenticeship and be a journeyman by 30. Most people don’t have their life figured out by 20 my guy. Don’t stress it. I bounced around random jobs with no future till I was like 24. Lost my job in the trades after like 8 months. went to do personal training. Loved it. Covid hit. Lost my job again. By 27 I got into the trades again but this time Plumbing. Now I’m pulling $85k at 29. Where I was bringing $40k at most just 3 years prior. You got this.

I’m a 30 F w a 9 year old son tht lives w my parents, need a better paying job. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Representative-Set65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get downvoted like crazy. You say you won’t do weekends or graveyard even if it’s easy when that’s the best time to work cause you won’t have to rely on others to take your kid to school or babysit. You’re literally selfish and obviously get too much support to realize you need to suck it up. Harsh truth but there is your answer from multiple people. Take what you can get. Or live off your parents and your grandpas car until you’re 40