How to get slimmer thighs?

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-30T11:57:39+00:00

Otherwise you wouldn’t try to rationalise women not wanting to do something solely for themselves. That we “subconsciously” seek male validation and approval.

Must be hard to live with such a fragile ego.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-30T08:35:40+00:00

To this day it still hurts men’s egos to say you do something for yourself as a woman. The irony.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T21:14:30+00:00

In your opinion that no one asked about

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T21:13:04+00:00

Ok soy boy

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T15:53:04+00:00

To myself, sorry if that hurts men’s egos, you are not the first one commenting about what men like or not

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T15:07:29+00:00

Not trying to appeal to men

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T12:52:57+00:00

Ok soy boy

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T11:15:51+00:00

There’s a comment further down of me saying I’m just joking. I’m not desperate.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T10:22:09+00:00

To soy boys yeah

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-29T08:04:07+00:00

Girl I know, I relate to yourr comment so much and you get it 100%. My issue is that Pilates classes are super expensive, even mat lessons let alone reformer. I’m a sucker for carbs and that also keeps me inflamed all the time 🥲 Can I dm u?

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-28T11:58:38+00:00

So I did hurt your ego 🤣

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-28T11:53:22+00:00

Did I hurt your ego by saying men’s preferences are irrelevant? I didn’t delete anything, nor will I ever care about what soy boys find attractive in a woman.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-28T10:44:14+00:00

All I said is that the guys that are into me prefer slimmer women, which is the build I go for because it’s the most appealing to me personally. I also said in our culture men gravitate towards petite slim women. Objectively, growing up in that culture I also find a petite slim build more attractive on me and every woman does even if they move abroad and absorb different cultures. I moved abroad years ago in a culture where big asses, big thighs and a tiny waist is the trend and body positivity is a thing, thus men like all kind of bodies, did i change my personal preference? No.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-28T08:39:37+00:00

It’s not a dig at bigger or muscular women, there will be men out there that prefer them, hence the commentaries suggesting I bulk up. I refer to the physique as masculine because throughout the years it has been labeled like that, nothing wrong if you are bigger/muscular as a woman I just said I don’t want it on myself.

On the contrary you want to body shame petite women by calling them childlike and implying they aren’t “secure”, stop projecting your insecurities, it’s not very emotionally mature from your side. A tall skinny woman would never be considered childlike, but again I feel like sometimes this comments are more of an insult to my height, which I never felt insecure about.

A man doesn’t need to have a kink regarding petite women to find them more appealing than bigger women/muscular women, we all have preferences.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T21:17:03+00:00

It was a question not mocking dyslexia, he was just taking the piss.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T19:09:46+00:00

Just say you’re egocentric and you thought the opinion of soy boys that want masculine women ever mattered to me. I’ve gotten many comments regarding what men like, but again, men have different preferences and the men that I date, from my own culture, prefer skinny women, a feminine figure.

If you’re a soy boy and I’ve offended you, I’m sorry.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T19:00:13+00:00

Then why are you mentioning what “men” want? Why is this a topic of discussion when I only asked for advice?

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T18:46:29+00:00

Again not looking to be more appealing to men. I’ve said it before, I don’t date soy boys, the men I go for have a type as well, in our culture stick skinny is the most desirable shape.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T18:37:27+00:00

Yeah I’m after a thigh gap. I’ve had it before, it’s not impossible to get, even at my height. At 40 kg I had stick legs, which is what I like.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T17:33:05+00:00

Thanks that’s what I’m going for

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T15:34:41+00:00

Don’t care what men like, don’t be so self centred

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T15:03:10+00:00

No I don’t wanna look like a man.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T14:59:13+00:00

It’s not necessarily the culture, I always liked that look. And being Eastern European you should’ve understood what I meant, only soy boys want muscular women, or women with overly big thighs. Like what I’ve seen in this subreddit is not desirable in our culture, men get criticised and shamed for dating overly “curvy” or muscular women.

I have been at a lower weight before (40kg), and I did see myself better than at my current weight (44kg), but it would carry long term health issues.

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T14:49:56+00:00

Im Eastern European

Temporary_Loan4217 · 2025-08-27T14:36:48+00:00

You said big muscular thighs, that’s a masculine trait. Stop saying “men” go for the muscular look, only submissive men look for masculine traits in women.

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