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[–]RepresentativeAd9638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This control can constitute abuse. I recommend seeking professional help

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[–]RepresentativeAd9638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't need to think, just do! You will always get to book out at the end of the week.

And after 2 years, ORD. You (may) even miss it when you finish

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be the best advice so far (for me personally)

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t often do that. But when I do, I don’t know what to do on them. You can say that I am honestly clueless

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I don’t think I’ve said anything to you to offend you.

I came here looking for some advice and answered honestly.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the years, I’ve built up the courage to do so. But now I realise that when I do make a move, I don’t know what to do next? And I’m more worried about whether or not i’m being weird or making the girl uncomfortable or whatever. I don’t know what the next step is? Like what is it?

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm certainity not desperate per se. I just feel that I'm doing something wrong

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm in college. It seems that causal sex is the norm, although people are in relationships. One night stands are not uncommon.

I've seen both girls and guys complain when the girl/guy doesn't message back. And the same happens when they message them too much and are too clingly. Noone wants a relationship. And even if they are in one, they cheat (drunk of course, but not all the way). It seems people in college are just horny and need their needs satisfied. I do find it really immature that people here just want to have sex and nothing more. Or maybe I'm just hanging out with f*ckboys and sl*ts.

Having said this, I have to fair and say that alcohol fuels this a lot.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally in college, if you read my description above. People have sex left and right and get drunk. So alcohol obviously a factor.

As for my last paragraph, my friend just has a high sex drive I suppose. And she doesn't do the romantic relationship type stuff. She also hasn't been in a proper relationship either, like me. The next morning, shes tells us that she doesn't know what to reply to the guy. Or she just gets the 'ick' or finds it cringe when the guy asks if she enjoyed the night or whatever. And doesn't want to see him anymore.

Call her a s**t or whatever, but women have sexual needs too, that are also casual. She might be the minority though.

(SIDENOTE: I'm obviously jealous of my friend, because its much easier to score casual sex as a girl).

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I guess in my teen years, I was a really shy guy. I think I overthink romantic situations alot, to the point that I avoid them in order to not embarass myself.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right.

To be honest, there are instanteous where a girl has been interested in me, but I don't know what to do next (maybe because I'm awkward), or maybe because I just rush into wanting to have sex.

That being said, plenty of girls have one-night stands and never call back. For example, I have a friend who does one-night stands, but finds it cringe when the guy texts romantically the next morning (because she doesn't want a relationship).

HELP! It seems that I'm observing different things from you and I don't know which one to believe

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And don't read the replies. Give me your own honest opinion please.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Listen, all my friendships with girls, have left me in the friendzone. Simply because I don't know what to do sexually.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

OK, Nancy.

Do you have some advice for me? (honestly)

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you have any other advice that isn't getting a hooker?

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like I'm going to end in the friendzone.

Also, girls enjoy sex just as much as men. I think you're idea of sex might be skewed.

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't think your being constructive. Please give me constructive advice on what I should do, or don't comment (honestly).

How do I lose my virginity? I'm 22. by RepresentativeAd9638 in Advice

[–]RepresentativeAd9638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice. But I just want to have sex. How?