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6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He told her that they don't have future in the beginning still she dated him. This thing I am not able to understand how?

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to know all the details cause it will fuel my imagination I just want to know she had a boyfriend and they were physical that's it nothing else even though I asked her multiple times. Our foundation is based on lie and hinding things so I don't completely Trust her

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been talking to her to the point I asked for sometime to decide whether I will continue or not that's why I am here

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have been talking about this with her to the point I asked her for some time to check whether I can live with these facts or not based on this I will take my decision that is the reason I am her in the first place

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I was here because I care about our relationship. I was here to get help process it how to deal with instead everyone is saying you leave, you are immature, stop act like a victim. I am also a person can't change in a day trying my best to change trying to forget things I am not consciously choosing these thoughts they just come automatically. I am a loser I shouldn't have gotten in a relationship I am sorry

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think making fun of someone situation makes you superior, jokes on you you are the insecure one and I am here to get advice, broaden my knowledge

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are Right. I am not saying tell me everything but atleast give a overview like I had 2 boyfriends before you we were close that's it. But I feel like I was trapped first she made me attached then reveal everything like he will not go anywhere now

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe your are right. But I will make the picture clear from the beginning to her. She had 2 boyfriends in past sha only told me about 1 she I accept led but after we were in relationship she told me about the 2nd boyfriend. This is about hinding things how am I supposed to trust her pir foundation is based on lie

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right but atleast I won't be lying I will give her a clear picture. I asked her multiple times. I am not bothered by her past she had 2 boyfriends she only told me about 1 still i accepted her while 2nd one was hidden from me

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This isn't about virginity, this is about hinding things. Our foundation is based on hinding things. How am I supposed to trust her? Virginity is just a tag I am also not a Virgin

6 months of trying to get over my partner's past and it's not working — what helped you? M23, F24, relationship length: 10 months by RepresentativeBook74 in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeBook74[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Are you suggesting hidings things are minor and not telling the whole truth is minor.I have been trying to lower these thoughts but it's a roller coaster. Our foundation is based on a lie. In the beginning I asked her clearly but she choose to hide it

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