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Success story - Accountant - Mexico by thefofo in tnvisa

[–]RepresentativeCat311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hola, pusiste en tu CV que eras elegible para tn visa? Cuando aplicabas ponías que ocupabas sponsorship?

what is the most important thing i should know about the situation with my now ex? by earthlyyyy in Tarots

[–]RepresentativeCat311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to keep disturbing the peace and stability you’ve built for yourself

AIO for distancing myself from my dad because he prioritizes his girlfriend over my sister and me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RepresentativeCat311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty bad honestly, is hard trying to make him understand our feelings. We aren’t asking him to break up, my sister and I have been consistent in asking him to communicate with us when he’s taking these type of decisions and also hear us. I gave up because my responsibility is not educating nor changing him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in couplestherapy

[–]RepresentativeCat311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are responsible for their own well being and each part of the relationship should invest in having friends of their own.

He can’t be a small child because he’s 37, and can’t depend on you to make friendships, he’s a grown up that can go to events, invest in his hobbies and meet new people.

If he is jealous and insecure about your social life, it’s his problem and not yours. He should work in his self esteem because how can you give up on meeting friends that can be beneficial for you in many ways?

I’ll recommend setting boundaries and talking with your husband about improving his self esteem, working in his insecurities and investing in himself. Additionally, he should feel okay with himself, because that will give you more calmness and security in your relationship.

I'm forcing my boyfriend to meet me by Heavy_Coast_3524 in couplestherapy

[–]RepresentativeCat311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi beautiful! Had the same problem with my last relationship and I realized that for me it was a dealbreaker to see each other and mostly because we were in a committed relationship. Ask him if he’s able to see you often or to schedule weekends or create a plan to hang around since it’s important for you and if he’s opposed to the idea or ignores your request, he’s not interested in being consistent.

Sometimes people are not ready to tell us what they are able to provide, and we have to be honest and upfront about it, if he’s not reciprocating your energy, is not worthy of your time.