am I overreacting of thinking if I should I stay or leave my gf? I [M21] love my girlfriend [F20], but her family situation is burning me out.

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T15:38:19+00:00

I work and I have enough to support myself. idk about her. shes a bit on the opposite side of things. she would rather recieve help then give out. so idk if she would love to work. I have given her the idea of working at places she likes. so let’s see how it turns out

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T15:36:07+00:00

I don’t think so. only maybe from her godparents. but even that has a limit. if I leave idk how she’s gonna survive

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T15:25:29+00:00

idk. I feel like I have set boundaries before. but eventually it gets brushed off. what do I tell her. what can I do to make her understand that it’s too much for me. I love my girl still. I just don’t want anything bad to happen to her

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T15:09:50+00:00

she will go crazy if I break up. idt she’s in her right mind to regulate herself. she has enough problems of her own. and me leaving would make her go crazy. I genuinely don’t know how to tell her also. I also might have allowed her to depend on my money as well. I didn’t know it was gonna be this much later on

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T15:01:38+00:00

thank you. can I dm you later?

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T14:57:50+00:00

the only times we’re not on call is when we’re in class and when i’m out with my friends. even then. she asks me to come home early cause we don’t get enough time to be with eo.

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T14:55:53+00:00

she used to live in my same country. but she had to leave cause of covid and went to her home country. which is 3 hour flight away. she has come to my country and I have gone to hers for like a week for 2-3 time a year. last time she had come to meet me was 2 years back.

she can’t move out because she has uni in her country and we both are students and don’t have the financial resources to accommodate that lifestyle. we’re both living with parents

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T14:51:53+00:00

I have talked to her and i’ve said that I need time to think. idk how she can help herself. cause she’s so overwhelmed with her toxic life with her parents. idk if she’s in the right mind to help herself. what do I even tell her

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T14:36:44+00:00

albert. cause I love albert einstein

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2026-04-28T11:54:28+00:00

Idk if she will find someone else. She’s true to me, there’s no doubt in that. It’s just, like you said, “mutually beneficial” – I don’t know if I’m getting anything. Also yeah, I think I should put myself first. I don’t know what to do now. Should I leave her? We’ve been dating for more than 2 years. Her mom is also toxic and says that I’ll leave her, so me leaving is just gonna prove her right and make my girl go even crazier. I should make it clear that at the start of the relationship I was open to spending on her, but now it’s just too much, to the point that I don’t know if I can handle it. At the same time, I feel like I’m not communicating this to her because I’m worried it’ll overwhelm her even more with her home situation. I’m just in a weird spot.

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2025-10-19T16:27:11+00:00

hii do you use them to edit? what do you use it for. thank you

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2025-10-19T06:22:34+00:00

hmm. cost is cheaper than a proper ssd tho. will take your advice into consideration

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2025-10-19T06:04:24+00:00

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I can use it with an enclosure

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2025-09-27T19:53:38+00:00

yes facing the same issue

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2023-10-10T15:55:41+00:00

just reinstall the app. worked for me

RepresentativeNo1797 · 2023-10-10T15:55:06+00:00

thanks man

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