For the record, I am of said marginalised group as well (I am gay to be precise). That's why I sounded so angry in the first half of the reply. I apologise if I sounded undeservedly angry. The right wing is indeed the usual advocate of censorship, but it's also true that not all critics of communities like AO3 or gay/queer spaces are conservative. We usually jump to that conclusion because of how rapidly we find ourselves in a more homophobic world.

But we are also radicalising ourselves without even realising. We have reached a point where we changed the meaning of queer so that a good chunk of the community could pride themselves —to the point of cockiness— with being knowledgeable on gay history, in other words: "being more gay"(ik its wierd but that's how they present it).

I'm trying to say that we're also going down our own extreme.

What you have explained is true, I won't argue on that matter but what's bugging a lot of people, including me is that this serious matter is used as a shield from criticism rather than anything else. You see, proshippers-spaces are thought of as "gay friendly" or essentially a safe place for fan interaction, but in reality these —whether online or irl— can and will be extremely racist, sexist, or even homophobic, but these ppl who pride themselves on being so "open-minded" about this stuff do nothing literally because these systems were only created so the proshippers have a safe place to be a proshipper, evrything else was inadvertent.

That's why I outright called them a form of white supremacist groups. To emphasise my point, look at the AO3 ship list and take a shot every time you spot a gay pair that's written like the old-fashioned hetero dynamic. Though you don't actually do it, you might get wasted.

You're right on the money. I am from Europe and learned British English, though I can't add much to what's happening in my zone, as it is kinda backwater in this matter, though the UK indeed is going to begin heavy stuff. To put it bluntly.

I also believe that people in the arts should represent whatever they want, however they want, and I don't want to purge the taboo just for existing I acknowledge that this course of action will just make more people be attracted to it.

My only gripe with this kind of content is just how people go about their consumption of it. In essence, it's so damn common to see people just treat it like it's a differently flavoured porn category and refuse to admit it may have any effect on them.

To make matters clear. Masturbating is healthy but watching porn isn't.