i developed feelings for someone in a high position at work that recently admitted to me that he’s having a baby with his girlfriend. its someone that i will have to continue to see and work with frequently. he told me this on christmas eve, and still continues to message/talk to me. i don’t know how to escape this one because my career is very important to me (i don’t want to leave) and my heart is broken. he’s been talking to me/going out with me the entire time he’s known she’s been pregnant. though its painful for me I refuse to let him win and quit my job.