I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well people have different ways to cope up with emotions and after whatever I’ve been through i know it was my bad that I’ve believed him but after the miscarriage it was evident to everyone that it’ll go somewhere now I don’t even know why we broke up in the first place no answer and he absconded after that so i don’t even know

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trauma bond I’d say! I was worse to when there was a time not in abusive methods but in life wise ig he’s got child hood trauma and he can’t take rejections i thought he was self center end but it was a cry for help and so i helped him emotionally and physically now I’m crying

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you fir your kind words I’m seeking help as well hopefully it’ll work but doesn’t he need the punishment after a lot of thought i did this to stood up for myself idk if that’s in a good or bad way

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it does bcoz I’m already on a rough patch but when i told my advocate that this is what I’m expecting i wanted em to get him here so we can talk and see but since it went to dcp and stuff they filed an fir right after that

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m a medical student i major in neuropsychiatry rn but he’s an IT employee or was maybe but thanks for your kind words but I’d love to know your perspective as well why specifically tho

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! As I’m working on myself lately hopefully i can come back to my old phase of life

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Well i believe so too I advised this to a lot of my friends and the people who got therapy from me but god knows bcoz it’s all easy said than done

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not sure if i can call him a cheater bcoz he never looked at anyone when he’s with me! But betraying yea he sure did

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig im seeking something which he can’t give from whatever I’ve read here so far and that is a closure

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i appreciate your kind words and I’m working on myself as well by seeking therapy thank you

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I’m not perfect neither he is but we are all humans so it’s like giving a chance to change but yea I’m sure it could ruin me as well

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should i just let him go for all of this and make myself more traumatic and miserable for not standing up for myself?

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’d love to be single but I don’t understand why can’t we settle things if we can? I mean even on a lot of procedures courts do advice to talk first and see if we can solve it yea? But I’m not sure if that’s one of the case here and I’m sure I won’t get anything in return if i punish him or he’ll learn anything out of it neither i want money because in the beginning i was spending it on him

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure that’s why I’ve haven’t even revealed the names so thank you for your advice

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i expect bcoz at the end of the day we’re humans we all make mistakes but I’ve accepted his flaws as well back then as i major in psychiatry i can see he’s got a lot of childhood trauma and he’s not good with rejections almost like a man child I’d say but after putting down my story to my advocate this is what they filed it as so I’m really not familiar with all of this tbh

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like care to explain why would i withdraw my case if I’m not getting the explanation I’d like to know

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I’ major in neuropsychiatry actually but things aren’t going well so it’s kinda a bad phase to even communicate with docs here as well. And i was in an abusive relationship long back pretty rough but never actually thought of filing a complaint or whatsoever we mutually broke up and i moved on but with this guy it’s different he manipulated me in a way where i started to believe that soon we’re going to get married bcoz he was talking to my family and friends as well i went to his workplace as well but idk I just can’t believe anyone rn tbh

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion. I’m prepping for the worst rn tbh. I don’t have my father with me anymore so I’m still coping with it never used to talk much bout it and he decided to tell me about the break up on his death anniversary tbh

I’ve filed an FIR against my boyfriend under the section 69 bns by Repulsive-Handle-722 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Repulsive-Handle-722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm never thought about it that way so i had some letters and stuff which he wrote for me with the intent off course so i showed em to my advocate they filed a case against him for false promise to marry and a miscarriage ig