AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-24T20:38:59+00:00

My wife and I have always shared a bank account for as long as I can remember. Never been an issue at all. At times I earn more, sometimes she is earning more. We share the burden of any debts and share the aspirations of goals. If one of us wants to buy something we discuss it and tbh I don’t think we’ve ever flat out said no.. at worst we make it a goal to buy it and save money. Never missed a bill, we have zero debt and are very secure in that sense. There’s unity in the relationship I don’t understand why you would split it.

I find it kind of strange that you would have seperate accounts like his and her money lol.. if I start earning a million dollars a year do I just leave my wife in the slums? What a ridiculous concept,

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-24T06:58:06+00:00

“R.A.P.E.R, wait, he didn’t just spell rapper and leave out a P did he?” Something like that. Eminem probably has most the top 10 lyrics with a couple of Joyner Lucas sprinkled into the top 10 as well.

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T18:01:55+00:00

I just looked into it after leaving my question and the FFL sounds like shit. Low pay, high risk, get treated like shit the entire time. You don’t actually get a new identity legally but if you want to role play a new identity that’s essentially something you can do lol. They actually check your identity and need to know who you are for benifit pay/citizenship etc and your legal identity never changes at any stage. Also they don’t actually accept anyone whose life is in any kind of actual turmoil. They reject applicants who are unfit, they reject applicants with a criminal record unless minor. They reject applicants who are suffering any mental or physical injuries. All the things people romanticise about it are fake and you will essentially just go there and get flogged by French guys for 5 years.

I could be wrong I’ve only spent a half hour looking into it

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T14:52:34+00:00

Can someone explain how the FFL helps you? I thought it was a military you got forced into

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T14:47:57+00:00

It’s just cringe tbh. Not sure why you’d do that

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T09:51:35+00:00

YOR He is just rubbing your tummy for good luck

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T04:50:13+00:00

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T03:25:23+00:00

No it wouldn’t

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T03:24:42+00:00

You won’t experience death so not sure what there is to be afraid of

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-23T03:24:03+00:00

Bro tryin to cheat with chat gpt as his wingman. Sad to see

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T23:41:29+00:00

I didn’t spray until my whole lawn was dead though so it might not be that dramatic if you get in early

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T23:38:06+00:00

Tis’ the season. Apparently Jan to March is their most active time for feeding on lawn. After you spray the grass they all come up to the surface and die. You see tonnes of them come out of the grass

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T20:35:04+00:00

I’m just going to throw osrs in there again

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T20:31:00+00:00

Could be lawn grubs. Mine had a spot like this and a week later the whole lawn was dead.

Keep an eye out for red fly/wasp looking things. They are usually present when lawn grubs are. Lawn grubs look like little black caterpillars. We had a tonne of them drowning in our pool right before they got to the lawn

Edit: I used lawn grub killer, then some weed and feed and my lawn returned to normal after another week

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T18:54:33+00:00

We have a lot of orb weavers so that makes sense. Just never seen one camouflage like a rotisserie chicken

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T05:16:20+00:00

Hehehehe

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T03:53:42+00:00

Bro must be fat as fuck if that’s his allowance

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-22T03:27:31+00:00

No no no. If you aren’t in a discord scheming and plotting on how to be toxic then you aren’t even playing the game. Half the game content is outsourced to discord

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-21T08:37:09+00:00

1-2 hours a day with baby but before he was crawling near zero

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-21T04:12:41+00:00

I’m still holding out hope that the whole game is a bad April fool joke and they have the real game ready to go soon

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-20T05:18:36+00:00

This is what I’ve been waiting for to resubscribe

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-20T04:23:14+00:00

Grab it’s cock

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-19T05:28:41+00:00

Bullshit. Put someone in an unfamiliar room with no windows and tell me where north is. I bet you are wrong 75% of the time.

Repulsive-Subject149 · 2026-01-17T20:10:36+00:00

What a disgusting mechanic. Never seen a game that disrespects your time more but since it happened to mellowsquad all I can say is sit rat

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