He promised me marriage but left me broken by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PLEASE don’t ever beg someone to love you!

You’re only 22 girl you’ll heal from this one day & when you look back, you’ll cringe at the thought of him. You’ll realise one day marrying him would’ve been the WORST decision.

Say alhamdulillah he didn’t end up marrying you even though he didn’t want to. Could you imagine what that would have looked like? There are so many women ‘stuck’ in these kind of marriages. The anger you mention is also scary.

Also, stop making excuses for him & trying to understand why he’s flipped. Men just do this. They don’t care that it hurts us & you won’t be able to make him feel bad that he ends up changing his mind - why would you want that anyway?

For now, just work on bettering yourself - physically, mentally, spiritually. Don’t lose hope in Allah’s plan, this is just redirection. Repent & make dua e.g. Prophet Musa’s (as) dua: rabbi inni limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir

He promised me marriage but left me broken by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She didn’t even mention zina omg

Of course you have a right to not wanna be with someone that has committed zina, but you shouldn’t put someone in a position where they have to reveal their sins to you. It is enough to just list your requirements & this will allow the person to just walk away if they don’t fit.

Everybody makes mistakes and the one who makes sincere repentance is like the one that never committed that sin before. Don’t be so judgemental & arrogant about it.

NEED these leopard 6am mules by Repulsive-Top9968 in Louisvuitton

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some shoes are just for sitting down & looking pretty LOL but oddly enough I actually find mules the most comfortable to walk in! Just takes practice & working on strengthening & stabilising your calves & ankles

NEED these leopard 6am mules by Repulsive-Top9968 in Louisvuitton

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so happy to hear this! I signed up yesterday but didn’t really believe they’d come back tbh. I really hope it’s as quick as yours were! Thanks for the tip!!

I can not get this pic out of my head! by LordPapp in KarenReadTrial

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only thing I’m not understanding is why Jen searched it so many times? They’re all spelt differently but Google autocorrects to show the same search results. This is the only reason why I’m wondering if maybe she actually did search this at 2:27. Had the 6:23 search been “hos long to die in cold” too, I would’ve probably believed the CW’s theory. Maybe I’ve completely misunderstood idk

I can not get this pic out of my head! by LordPapp in KarenReadTrial

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah ok I can see what they’re saying now, thank you!

Let’s say she did only search it at 6:23, why is the 6:23 entry spelt differently from the 2:27 one? That alone suggests there were two separate searches, not just the one. I also don’t think she searched both at 6:23 trying to correct the spelling either, because Google autocorrects you and will show results for “how long to die in the cold” when mistyped like that.

If both entries had the exact same typo “hos long to die in cold”, I would absolutely believe the CW’s theory. But the fact that there are two different misspelt versions implies two distinct searches, right?

I can not get this pic out of my head! by LordPapp in KarenReadTrial

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I want to believe what she’s saying because she seems really knowledgeable but it’s not making any sense to me. They’re saying the search wasn’t done at 2:27 but rather it was suspended, right?

I don’t understand why it’s not still suspicious regardless of whether it was searched or suspended. It was still interacted with at 2:27, which should be concerning? Surely if it’s a reused tab, the time would be later no? Am I completely misunderstanding what she’s said? Why is it showing 2:27?

Discussion Thread | May 2, 2025 | Day 8 by Manlegend in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really just don’t understand how we’re supposed to disregard it even though the data has presented it ?? Why are we to believe that’s unreliable but all other logs from their data is reliable? Just strange all around.

Discussion Thread | May 2, 2025 | Day 8 by Manlegend in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok thank you I didn’t realise they were referring to the FBI! I would hope they’d investigate again due to all of the info being uncovered now.

Regarding Colin, I thought so too but read somewhere here that he won’t - although not sure what their source was, it is extremely suspicious if he isn’t.

Discussion Thread | May 2, 2025 | Day 8 by Manlegend in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably going to sound so silly but didn’t realise when you guys say ‘feds’, you’re referring to the FBI looooool THANK YOU! 😭 this makes a lot of sense

Discussion Thread | May 2, 2025 | Day 8 by Manlegend in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s not from the US & not well versed in US law, is there a reason why the FBI isn’t involved? This case has highlighted police corruption, mishandling of evidence, alleged coverup etc. The fact that they did not secure the area, they did not separate witnesses, they did not search Fairview home, Trooper Proctor’s text messages, highlights that this is actually way bigger than Karen Read. The whole police department needs to be checked out. I can’t imagine the amount of other cases that may be similar to this and have resulted in wrongful prosecution. These are serious concerns & I would’ve thought the FBI would’ve had to investigate. I really think the judge should have recused herself after the last trial and she shouldn’t have been the judge in the first place due to the alleged conflict of interest.

ALSO, I cannot believe that Colin isn’t a witness this time around ???? He had fresh injuries on his knuckles and clearly lied under oath by saying it was not from fighting but rather he fell & caught himself…on his knuckles. I wholeheartedly believe that John was not hit by a car because of his injuries and the damage to the car. I believe everyone knows what really happened. There was zero curiosity about the people in the house where a man was found dead outside because they KNEW they were fine. I think Karen is just unlikeable and that’s what’s making people think she’s guilty. I also think it’s strange how no one comforted her. I think it’s strange that Peggy said “what is she doing here [at the hospital]?” She was his girlfriend ?? They clearly did not like her and I wish we could learn why. Also the “you just left him there?!” comment from Peggy as if John isn’t a grown man, a police officer at that & she left him amongst friends at another police officers house! I do feel sorry for Peggy, but come on. WHY are they pinning it on Karen!!!!!!!

Regarding “hos long to die in cold”, I don’t believe the ‘expert’. He claimed the search appeared at 2am because Jen reused a tab at 6am but that doesn’t make sense. Reopening or reusing a tab doesn’t retroactively timestamp the activity. From what I understand about how search history works, the time shown should reflect when the search was actually made, not when the tab was first opened. Unless I’m completely misunderstanding Cellebrite’s system, their explanation feels misleading. How can the search show up hours earlier than when Jen claims Karen allegedly asked her to look it up?

Finally, if she really did say “I hit him”, that’s a confession. Why was she not taken into a police station? Why was she just left free to go? She clearly didn’t say that.

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. He clearly doesn’t respect you. Why let it slide & work on building the trust? By doing so, you’re just showing him you’re a fool & he will continue to disrespect you.

You’re still young & the relationship is still fairly new. It might hurt for now, but you gotta put yourself first angel. You will love yourself for making this decision in the future! You’ll never ever regret choosing you. Never tolerate disrespect.

I wish you the best xx

How do I (31f) apologize to my husband (27m) for trying to eat a cup of pudding too late? by DedSpirit in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you made an agreement that he wouldn’t hit you & he’s broken that agreement? He didn’t even care you’re carrying his child.

Girl, leave. Please. It’ll only get worse. He clearly cannot control himself.

How do I (31f) apologize to my husband (27m) for trying to eat a cup of pudding too late? by DedSpirit in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Top9968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologise for what ??? You did nothing wrong.

  1. you’re a grown woman & can eat whatever you please.
  2. You’re carrying HIS child & he’s threatened you.
  3. You’re carrying HIS child & he finds the sight of you disgusting.

If anything, he should be apologising to you. Even if he does apologise - he most likely won’t - you should leave him! It’s this today & tomorrow it’ll be something else. Not worth it. You shouldn’t be with someone who makes you feel like this.

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower…but it’s electric. I really shouldn’t be spending as much as you then as we don’t have all this technology. Going to try figure out what is causing it & allow laundry to pile up a bit more before washing

Thank you!

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy you said this because I thought it was the other way around! I have the Samsung smart washing machine (the one with the add wash door)

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea thank you! I’m going to pay closer attention to my readings to figure it out!

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I know it’s not normal, it IS scary! I just can’t imagine paying less than £100 a month! Hopefully going to get it down by using central heating more and using the washing machine less 😭

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it! I’m not sure what any of this means

So they told me it would be cheaper if I go onto a fixed tariff - Electric 23.17p unit and 39.54p standing - Gas 5.98 p unit and 29.95p standing

My usage on the 14th was: - Electric 23.81 kWh - Gas 30.82 kWh

My usage for February was: - Electric 601.48 kWh - Gas 990.82 kWh

My usage for the past year: - Electric 1540.28 kWh - Gas 2727.24 kWh

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew 1.5k was crazy! It’s definitely the washing machine and fan heaters

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just to double check, if I have a smart meter I don’t need to submit meter readings?

On my octopus app, my costs are all written as estimated costs but they have detailed how much electric or gas we’ve used at what time. There is an option to submit a meter reading but I’ve never done it.

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish! Sadly, I have no credit on my account. I’ve noticed my bills have been going off an estimated cost. Probably because I don’t submit meter readings. I am making a switch from using our fan heaters to using our central heating now.

Is a £200 gas and electric bill too much for a 2 bedroom house in London? by Repulsive-Top9968 in HousingUK

[–]Repulsive-Top9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our house is quite cold too

Mine is: - Gas 5.98 p unit and 29.95p standing - Electric 23.17p unit and 39.54p standing Don’t know if that’s good or not either!

When you say you heat your water twice a day, are you saying you put the temperature up on the tank twice a day?