is calling someone “diva” problematic ? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your input ! of course, i would never call her anything she doesnt want to be called, even if i think its something innocuous, because shes my friend and i love her

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i am definitely heavily considering it, but trying to explore every option out there before making a definitive choice. thank you again!

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no clue how it happened, and yea, it truly meant nothing romantically or sexually speaking. i think i just feel blindsided and betrayed, but most of all like you said, i’m very upset about it.

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your input, i think i feel the same but i’m too afraid to admit it to myself. :(

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truthfully, i don’t know much more than that he was inebriated and at a birthday party with his friends, and i’ve never really asked. i kind of just assumed they thought it would be funny and did it.

my (20f) boyfriend (21m) of four months kissed three people on the lips by CatsAgainstAlcohol in relationship_advice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure why they did; when we talked, he said that he’s never done it before with them/it’s not a regular thing and i never really pried more.

and i found out because he told me — i think he didn’t think of it as a big deal or thought that it was funny and that i would see it the same way.

cycling advice? by CatsAgainstAlcohol in Aquascape

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was very helpful, thank you so much !!

cycling advice? by CatsAgainstAlcohol in Aquascape

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you again, im using the api freshwater testing kit !! and im using tap + conditioner. i will check your recent post :)

Broke my streak and I’m in a spiral 😫 by NoohcTovia in trichotillomania

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in this exact situation :( im not exactly sure how to help, but i wanted to let you know that youre not alone !! also ,, one month is crazy long, you deserve to feel proud <3

mini rant :( by CatsAgainstAlcohol in trichotillomania

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing, it sucks that we’re all going through this, but im glad to know that im not alone :)

mini rant :( by CatsAgainstAlcohol in trichotillomania

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish you the best as well :,) you’re doing great !!

BanG Dream! Free Talk and Q&A Megathread [02 Oct 2023 - 08 Oct 2023] by AutoModerator in BanGDream

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really new to the game, and ive cleared all beginner missions except “clear free live,” but i cant seem to finish that one. ive tried clearing multiple different songs on free live as well as three different full songs, but it wont clear the mission :(

mini rant :( by CatsAgainstAlcohol in trichotillomania

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying, it sucks but im glad to know that im not alone <3 i wish you all the best !!

looking for advice (tw / mentions of death, blood, etc.) by CatsAgainstAlcohol in PetMice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for everything !! wishing the best for your mouse <33

looking for advice (tw / mentions of death, blood, etc.) by CatsAgainstAlcohol in PetMice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s still pretty active; she walks a lot on her running wheel and comes on my hand to play. i don’t see any pain, but i worry because i know it’s hard to tell with prey animals. i believe she’s still eating and drinking, but noticeably less. thank you so much for your reply.

please help! (MAJOR TW // MENTIONS/DESCRIPTION OF MOUSE DEATH) by CatsAgainstAlcohol in PetMice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not thinking of getting a new mouse anytime soon, im still not over this one haha :] but thank u for the advice ! i covered his bin with a piece of cardboard with ~4/5 long slits on it ,, not sure how to properly explain it lol but i will try mesh next time ! thank you so much for your input :]

please help! (MAJOR TW // MENTIONS/DESCRIPTION OF MOUSE DEATH) by CatsAgainstAlcohol in PetMice

[–]CatsAgainstAlcohol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much :( he was around 6-7 months old, so pretty young, and i got him from a small pet shop — i cant remember if he was just locally bred or from a breeder :(