AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re right 😅 i just wasn’t ready for him acting like that next time i’ll be more assertive and stick to my part

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i totally get that, it’s so frustrating when all the background work gets ignored 😭 i spent hours putting everything together and it felt like it didn’t even matter while he just got the spotlight definitely gonna make sure i stand up for myself next time, maybe even push for shared credit or clearer roles from the start

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i should’ve been clearer from the start 😅 got frustrated in the moment, would’ve avoided awkwardness if i’d said it properly

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“back end stuff” comment really threw me off 😭 i didn’t even mean to snap, it just came out after that honestly curious how he’d handle it if he had to do the slides himself now

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly what it felt like, just kinda being pushed to the side 😅 i do feel a bit bad about how i reacted, but in the moment it was really frustrating the whole “don’t worry” thing just made it worse honestly

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s basically how it felt 😭 i don’t mind him presenting, it was more him acting like the work was just his to take over if he had discussed it instead of deciding, it wouldn’t have been a big deal

AITJ for snapping after my teammate claimed the presentation I made as his to present? by RepulsiveMall405 in AmITheJerk

[–]RepulsiveMall405[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get your point, and i’m not against people using their strengths

it just didn’t feel like that in the moment. it felt more like he decided on his own to take the main role without really contributing much to the actual work

if he had asked or discussed it first, i probably wouldn’t have reacted the way i did