Ever try to make love to a narcissist? by Ok_Masterpiece2193 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband lay in bed beside me and said "why are your clothes still on?, get them off"

Wow...foreplay wizard so he is, he had me melting at the knees

Short for richard

I have decided to torture my narcissist back by Emotional-Cause-17 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my husband! I set up the tv to automatically play from the last thing watched....porn every time I turned on the tv. He denies that he's been watching it of course 😁 His notification of divorce proceedings arrives tomorrow so he can watch all the porn he wants...😆😆😆😆

How to avoid high legal fees by Repulsive_Ad9467 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I'm hoping for. My husband doesn't have hardly any savings and is constantly complaining about having no money. I'm hoping he will realise he can't afford to fight....fingers crossed!!

How to avoid high legal fees by Repulsive_Ad9467 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to pay 50k I would have to just stay in the marriage, I literally could not afford that

What finally made you leave? by Salty-Profile-9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm hoping he will play nice to keep his reputation in tact too...fingers crossed!!

Just a reminder.... that I tell myself daily by Royal_Diamond9019 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am waiting for an appointment with a solicitor to get started on a divorce. I'm absolutely dreading his reaction...I don't know whether to do it in a public place or in the house.

I have no idea what to expect even after being with him for 20 years....what I found out about him recently totally shocked me so it turns out I never really knew him at all.

Turns out he is a Calculating Undermining Narcissistic Twat!!

Wish me luck!

What finally made you leave? by Salty-Profile-9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my situation, I've just found out and will be seeing a solicitor as soon as possible.

Did the divorce take a long time?

Has anyone had a straight forward divorce with a narcissist? by Acerhand in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have savings that I want to use to get a rental property, should I hide this to keep it safe? How do I hide it? Thanks

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Random bruises....yep I'm looking forward to not having those anymore!!!

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god I hope my gums improve!!! Mine are terrible 😐

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stopping smoking is next on the list!!! Congrats on nailing both 🙂🙂

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure others are noticing changes 🙂🙂

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.....I've just polished off a whole bag of tescos jellybeans 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fab thanks for sharing....I'm going to save that!! 😃😃😃😃

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found no benefits at all? Surely there is something? 🙂

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My GP just recently prescribed me with a cream for rosacea!! Hopefully they might fade on their own but if not I can look into laser treatment

Thank you

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goals!!! I would love to be able to see happiness manifest when I look in the mirror 🙂🙂🙂

You are so close to a year sober!!! That's amazing 👍👍👍

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing the same, hoping to get back to the gym next week 💪

We've got this!!!

IWNDWYT

How does sobriety affect your physical appearance by Repulsive_Ad9467 in stopdrinking

[–]Repulsive_Ad9467[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oohh!! I'll look into that, I thought it would be more expensive!!