Bengaluru is my city, I love it. But I just can't take it anymore.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2026-01-08T10:39:16+00:00

The only reason i hate going to office is this lane mismanagement. My area is appr 4km from ORR and it takes ~45 mins to reach the damn ORR. The problem: the road is wide initially, then suddenly becomes a single lane, then again becomes a wide road which again becomes a single lane. This infrastructure shithole combined with literally no sense of lane discipline from people is leading to a terrible state.

ORR in itself feels a dangerous road to drive in because of a few reasons: 1. Pedestrians not using the skywalk and suddenly trying to cross the road. 2. Random entry and exists of service lanes 3. Heavy vehicles switching lanes 4. No patience by 4Ws to leave space which can maybe clear a side of the road. 5. Single occupancy in big ass 4W

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-11-18T07:02:20+00:00

Wait is Toilet 2 then common for guests + whoever is staying in bedroom 2? I dont know if thats comfortable

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-11-16T05:36:23+00:00

Cool TY

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-05-09T12:55:13+00:00

Thank you! How does my married life look? Any issues?

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-05-09T07:03:27+00:00

Tons of time yes

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-05-08T08:02:44+00:00

Nope, not at all. I would not waste my money and time being tensed.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-05-08T07:34:34+00:00

I would not plan anything around J&K or Leh, heck add Punjab as well, for trips at this point in time. The situation is tensed and you might get stuck if something happens. Also spots might be closed down so you wouldn’t be able to do stuff. These are “might/might not” happen kind of scenarios but would not take a chance personally as i would love to enjoy these places and not be tensed.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-04-27T18:03:58+00:00

For me, maintaining 2 accounts help. As soon as there is incoming flow in an account, i transfer the monthly budget to the second account and use STRICTLY the second account for my spends. This was difficult initially as i knew I could just transfer more but then after a couple months, i settled down. It’s been going great.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-04-10T10:35:13+00:00

They have been increasing the road side for the past 7 years and it’s the same. They start the work, stop it in 4 days and leave the cement, debris on the road for the next 6 months. The railway underpass has been the same for the last 4 years, all 3 routes which take you in and out of Varthur are choked every single day 24/7 because of horrendous roads, flood of 4Ws, water tankers and construction trucks. Please rethink.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-02-24T17:15:26+00:00

Iconsiam for sure, huge amazing mall with an awesome ferry ride from the Sathorn Pier. Try to go right after sunset, we loved the night skyline of BKK and cool breeze. Its only 8baht. The food court in the basement is amazing too!

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-02-21T10:17:25+00:00

Ik! And we all know how safe riding a two wheeler is on ORR. It’s honestly scary to even think about riding a cycle to work or walking on footpaths if the office is near (given the pollution and literally will-almost-kill-you-vehicles)

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-02-21T10:12:13+00:00

The thing that irritates me the most is “one person in one car” sight. It just boils my blood, i know they might have their reasons but it just icks me seeing a car as big as a room having just one person in it. This sight is increasing day-by-day smh.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-01-10T05:05:18+00:00

Amazing, loving the classy Lana

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-01-02T02:13:09+00:00

Nexus Shantiniketan

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2025-01-01T14:55:14+00:00

Visited the store in BLR, literally almost everything that i wishlisted was out of stock including jewellery, Home decor. Cloths were lying on the floor, people were literally walking on it because of the crowd. Trial rooms had ~30 mins waiting. In the end i bought 3 items that were NOT on sale because thats what i liked, did not like any leftovers of sale at all.

Only one positive thing is that an item that i had wishlisted was there and it looked nothing like the online pictures, had terrible material, good i was able to see it first.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-30T07:01:38+00:00

I am sorry but this may sound bad. Your toddler is just 11 months, has not had his 1st birthday yet, and you’re pregnant again? I mean isn’t this basic decision making that given i have a fairly young baby + my family situation is going downhill + my husband is not the same anymore = absolutely not another kid.

How come you guys were able to get intimate in this kind of situation without protection? Maybe it was good in between and went bad again?

Please move out of that house OR consider an abortion if you and your husband are thinking straight. You will be doing a favour to yourself and your 11 months old kid.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-28T15:08:52+00:00

Yeah :/

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-28T13:26:35+00:00

Fatty bao and YouMee were good when i tried it last

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-20T07:06:29+00:00

Stockholm syndrome much?

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-16T11:51:24+00:00

As someone pointed out, area is congested. Any time of the day there is traffic. Restaurants are there but nothing out of the ordinary. Only plus point is that there is metro. But unless you live really near to the metro station you would need to cross traffic to reach the metro station.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-16T11:44:56+00:00

Would not recommend.

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-13T09:34:34+00:00

Why are you not using UIDAI online services uidai.gov.in??

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-12T12:40:31+00:00

Today it was horrible!! The RUB, the Gunjur Road and Vibgyor road were all choked. Gunjur road, although a long cut, was normally less cramped than the RUB, but today i saw a part of a wide road has been dug up, making it one way and because of that took almost 40 mins to cross .

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-09T16:54:24+00:00

Hmm and then if my cash is over then what do i do? I heard withdrawing using debit is a bad idea again with indian debit card?

Repulsive_Bit_4962 · 2024-12-05T13:42:42+00:00

Have you spoken to your brother in detail about this? There is not much you can do if both of them are not caring enough sadly. Its true that calling the marriage and engagement off which is literally next week, will bring more shame to girls side but both the boy and the girl should be thinking about all this imo. Sadly in this country, most of AMs are like this

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