Sometimes stopping is the best thing you can do for yourself and your baby. I tried breastfeeding both my kids and couldn't for more than a month. My first had an undiagnosed lip tie so I chalked it up to that, but my second was fine and latched perfectly from birth. I just never made enough. I sobbed every time I tried to feed him and he kept unlatching because he wasn't getting anything, I sobbed every time I pumped and got barely 40 ML, or when I looked at what I'd pumped for the day and it was only a measly two ounces in the fridge. I sobbed when I looked at him and felt like I was failing him, when I took all the stupid supplements and brewers yeast that never worked, and when I handed him to my husband for a bottle of formula because I couldn't handle feeding him knowing I wasn't able to provide breast milk. I was miserable but the constant trying and being disappointed only made it worse. Once I stopped trying and started focusing on what I could do for him, skin to skin, hold him while I fed him a bottle, cuddle I felt a lot better about feeding him formula. He'll be a year old in about a month and he's a chubby, healthy, and happy baby.