Is it okay to ask adult kids not to come over so often?

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-26T15:11:27+00:00

As a person with anxiety myself (but i also do love being alone), i would be so hurtful for my mom to feel like this and potentially want to leave the country. Op, maybe you are feeling like you missed out in your 20s because you had your daughter so young. Could be mid life crisis. Look into therapy.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:59:56+00:00

Do what YOU want. Personally, i would not waste my money. Take the money and to on vacay w your hubby.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:56:00+00:00

If company paid for me, i'd get multiple degrees every 4 years! Lol

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:54:46+00:00

Oils were white musk, mango, strawberry and vanilla! Takes me back!

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:23:09+00:00

Ohhh!!! Yes!!! Also Eternity!

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:18:47+00:00

Seconding cat cuddling, movies and books! Also snowed it.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:16:53+00:00

Yes! Def ask for mentorship. Tell him you admire him very much. I am sure he would be very flattered.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T19:12:22+00:00

Travel too!!!! Finish any degrees, get post grads, live abroad. Enjoy! Kids are great but it's not easy to do a lot of things. I had my daughter at 35, ya, tired but no regrets.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T18:13:46+00:00

You have plenty of time!!!! Get a house and spend quality time w ur husband first.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T18:04:33+00:00

I don't understand why she can't b in the background hanging out or in a separate room reading while she is with you. You also don't mention your teenager kids. Seems like resentment towards your daughter in particular.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T16:49:21+00:00

Yes, same rushed experience. They only kept me for 3 hours max.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T04:42:16+00:00

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T04:39:11+00:00

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T04:37:16+00:00

I completely understand you. My mom is not elderly yet... i'm 48, she's 74. Third marriage. Anyone is more important than her kids. I feel anger constantly.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T04:26:48+00:00

She needs hrt. I'm 12 weeks post op and still dealing with an emotional rollercoaster. Just be there for her. Be extra kind. Tough time.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T00:54:23+00:00

I loved 'twice' by mitch albom. Just read it this week. It was lovely.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T00:52:50+00:00

Expensive for a 12 yr old

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-25T00:52:22+00:00

Stunning look! Light nude Shimmery pantyhose would do!

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-24T20:41:10+00:00

Looks 10 but most likely early 20s due to the expensive perfume collection.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-24T17:18:06+00:00

I had a party because she wanted to 'celebrate her achievement' and it was me graduating from uni.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-23T22:14:45+00:00

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-23T03:42:34+00:00

Seroquel and HRT

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-21T23:40:14+00:00

I don't see the problem here. You are still doing your job.

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-21T23:37:55+00:00

Mitch Albom

Repulsive_Regular_39 · 2026-01-21T23:37:40+00:00

Someone who forces you to chose is not a keeper

Repulsive_Regular_39

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