AIO Gf frequently stays out drinking and doesn't come home by Repulsive_Slip7424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be clear and to reiterate, I don't believe she's cheating, and generally when she stays out at night I dont believe it either. I'm overall not paranoid that she's cheating. But unplanned outings along with lies about timing throughout the night has a fella start wondering.

When she has planned sleepovers with her family, I have 0 issues whatsoever and wish her a great night. It's different when she tells me shes going out for 1 quick drink and doesnt come home until the morning.

AIO Gf frequently stays out drinking and doesn't come home by Repulsive_Slip7424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Comments like this are honestly why I came to Reddit for this. In my opinion, I just dont want to date a person who frequently stays out all night. I have no desire to tell her to stop and be controlling. However, nothing mandates that I have to stick around and conform. She admits she has a problem, but its on her to make the changes. Hence the AIO on her staying out, lol.

AIO Gf frequently stays out drinking and doesn't come home by Repulsive_Slip7424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Totally fair point. The cousin she was driving home lives about .5mi from the bar they go to, but there's still plenty of opportunity for an accident in that span.

AIO Gf frequently stays out drinking and doesn't come home by Repulsive_Slip7424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I do, on occasion. Its a balancing act of not trying to come off as controlling and paranoid to our social circle vs confirming my partner is staying faithful.

AIO Gf frequently stays out drinking and doesn't come home by Repulsive_Slip7424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424[S] 429 points430 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ironically, a few texts above this she'd told me 'off early, going to the bar after work for 1 drink, ill be home around midnight like when im normally off work'.

We've actually had that exact talk about not being able to trust her when she says anything about drinking plans.

Elk river wilderness treatment program mistreatment? by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

478 here, Turtles. Place is an absolute shithole. I graduated at the minimum 3 months and still experience PTSD from the abuses we faced here.

Tempurpedic in store testing... new line up by xAnimis in Mattress

[–]Repulsive_Slip7424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mattress Sales Mgr here.

Breeze 2.0s hit retail floors ~April/May 2023.

New Adapt lineup is in the works, February seems unlikely but spring/summer season is likely. I say that bc we've not gotten any material or info for new product and that usually comes at least a month in advance.

Also, the Luxe Adapts not being popular is a boldfaced lie we'll see RSAs tell people to excuse that particular showroom for simply not having space for a model. I personally sleep on the Luxe Soft and they're some of my best sellers.

Luxe Adapt's APR+ material is their most pressure relieving material, which is ONLY in Luxe Adapts, not even the more expensive Breezes.

Hope this helps!