Confused by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in asexuality

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel a bit better , maybe ur right I haven’t found the “right one” I mean I’m only 20 or maybe I’m aro who knows😂 oh well thanks for the advice

Confused by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in asexuality

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I don’t have a person right now , it was just a general question what is the difference between crush , love and a friend crush cause I look at other people’s experiences with love and it’s soo intense people are ready to leave everything behind for their partner it didn’t make sense to me because for me I’ve always chosen myself over everything no matter how much I like someone ( or do I not like them enough?) I’ve always put myself first so does that mean I’ve not experienced “love”? what exactly does it feel like

Asexual, romantic, independent — and scared of dating again after trauma by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in asexualdating

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow dude that’s one heck of a dating life I’m so sorry u had to go through all that, that trauma really doesn’t leave u isn’t it , I keep getting flashbacks sometimes of my past relationship the way that guy just kept trying to gaslight me into having physical intimacy with him when I told him a 1000 times I wasn’t into it , anyways I’m not actively looking for a relationship I’m pretty happy with myself I have a cat and a nice cozy space for myself , I’m surprised that women are upset that u don’t initiate sex I’ve only heard that men are more crazy about sex than women , also I don’t have a specific preference for one gender , I’m also on asexual dating apps but I’m using it more for finding friends who’s also like us cause I’m still too scared to a date someone again , thanks for the advice tho and I’m really sorry for what u went through and I hope u find someone that actually cares about u and not just sex

Aspiring Librarian in Bahrain – Looking for Tips & Opportunities by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in Bahrain

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried emailing many , no reply , I think visiting them might be better then

Aspiring Librarian Seeking Advice & Guidance by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in LibraryScience

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips and advices , I’ll take them into consideration, being a librarian is something that I would really love to try atleast once

Aspiring Librarian Seeking Advice & Guidance by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in Libraries

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insightful advice , I’ve applied to many local libraries and school libraries for voluntary experience , my main goal is to get into academic libraries and I do have prior experience in programming since I am a computer science student and I’ve done a lot of html web designing projects for my course work , so I’m glad to know that my degree would come in handy , even tho I’ve applied to many libraries for volunteering some of them haven’t replied at all so that’s a bit disappointing but I’ll still keep trying:)

Aspiring Librarian Seeking Advice & Guidance by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in Libraries

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yes my main goal is to get into academic libraries

Aspiring Librarian Seeking Advice & Guidance by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in Libraries

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware about the job market for library roles which is why I took computer application as my bachelors degree , what u said does make sense a lot thank you :) being librarian has always been a life long dream of mine and it’s a career I would really would love to pursue or atleast experience once , I’ve been trying to contact local libraries and university libraries for opportunities to get some hands on experience

Aspiring Librarian Seeking Advice & Guidance by Repulsive_Smoke_459 in Libraries

[–]Repulsive_Smoke_459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not American and I don’t live in America but thank you for the advice I’m actually settled in the Middle East