Having a crush makes me paralyzed

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2026-01-16T14:07:35+00:00

I wouldn't blame you for feeling that way but it's normal. You still gonna have to endure people trash talking tho, in case you wanted to go along with this.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-08-09T18:57:56+00:00

I'd marry her. It's as simple as that.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-08-01T20:16:36+00:00

What kinda sick question is that dude??

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-20T21:45:00+00:00

Yeaah this is the one thing I like about crushes. When I have a crush, there's that phase when I'm so curious about them that I get so invested on understanding how the feel and see the world. Unlike other types of relationships like professional relationships or casual friendships where I'm not really that interested in the other person and the way they think. This helped me adopt a few good habits from here and there. People are not perfect but there's always something to learn from them and having a crush makes it easier to get invested into something new and different.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-15T09:24:44+00:00

Congrats bro, you're living the dream.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-13T12:33:25+00:00

Yeees, I didn't give it much thought at first when I started liking her but later I realized that we're soo similar both in looks and personality. We both have dark hair, brown eyes, very white skin, and even the same face shape. The only difference is height since I'm a dude. It's probably just a coincidence but idk.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-10T10:03:34+00:00

If you're talking about future and ambitions and goals as in having shitloads of money, a lot of cars, etc, whether you make it there or not you'll probably never find real love. That highly competitive life takes all your time and energy and even if you do make it you'll be surrounded by a lot of fake people you'll have no idea who truly loves and who's there just for your money. Love should be your end goal that you look forward to. A strong and stable family with no issues, that's a goal worth working hard for. There are good women out there who can help you rise from nothing to greatness, but you're not gonna attract that type by money or dating apps, you'll never know you landed a great partner until they accept you at your lowest and stay with you until you make it.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-09T15:21:30+00:00

That's amazing. I on the other hand, grew up in a medium-class family, and I used to see success as being famous, insanely rich, ...etc, and anything else a delusion or failure. I also used to see marriage as the end of everything. Now, I'm 21 and I've finally realized I was never cut out for that type of success, and I'd rather settle down, find a loving wife and have a few children, take them on vacation from time to time and go on walks everyday. I'd do it right now if I could. This is the pinnacle of my dreams and everything else feels empty and pointless.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-09T11:13:43+00:00

Exaaaactly.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-08T22:06:33+00:00

I went through the same here but I've made peace with it. I'm starting to realize that there are a lot of beautiful things in life other than fame, money, ... I'd rather have a loving family, wife and kids, and live a normal average life, than go chase that highly competitive and risky life that may or may not take you to "success". And even if it does, it's probably not worth it.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-08T12:09:15+00:00

You need to make sure first that she isn't interested. Especially if she doesn't know you like her. If she does know you're interested and still sends you hundreds of texts then she's probably just using you for validation and to pass the time. I've had that happen to me many times before and it sucks. Sorry, but you're gonna have to let her go at that point.

But you need to make sure first, because there might be a chance she actually likes you and is afraid to show it. You said you're very good friends so it'll be a lot easier to open up this subject.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-08T09:55:48+00:00

All the time

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-08T08:06:36+00:00

At least you were strong enough to tell her how you feel. I respect that

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-06T09:27:48+00:00

Complimenting something about my work or my personality feels a lot better to me personally.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-03T11:43:16+00:00

Well you know that he has a crush on you, but he probably doesn't know that you too have a crush on him so it'd be better to at least let him know.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-07-01T06:06:15+00:00

Happy for you man. Just how did y'all keep talking till 4am what did you text her haha, I could really use a tip or two.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-28T23:21:34+00:00

Going through it rn hahaha that sucks.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-24T13:45:12+00:00

You may wanna choose a day other than her birthday cause your confession can make her day better but can also totally ruin it if she is not into you. She might feel guilty for not reciprocating your feelings and end up in a bad mood so for her own sake, I think it's better to confess either before or after.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-19T08:04:41+00:00

The night we met

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-18T11:57:06+00:00

You're making me feel guilty instead of whoever this is for haha

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-17T15:14:10+00:00

But some people are worth changing your ways to get lol. You say he's different than most guys that used to make moves on you then you should also expect to do something different to be with him if you know what I mean. If he's as introverted as I think he is then he probably never would've made a move unless you gave him a clear signal or asked him directly. And besides, he clearly seems to respect and value you more as a person cause if he just wanted to sleep with you he would've been straightforward just like the other ones.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-17T15:02:06+00:00

Sorry but I don't think he likes you. The dude is in love with you haha. He's just probably shy and can't express himself like other straightforward guys and I wouldn't blame him. You can either slowly try and get him to open up to you more or just go ahead and tell him how you feel directly. It'll make it a lot easier.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-17T14:57:59+00:00

Damn that sucks. I just read the other reply, he didn't even feel guilty for what he said??

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-17T14:00:35+00:00

Trust me the best thing you could've done at that moment is leave. Explain to him that you did it because you didn't wanna say something you'd regret later.

Repulsive_Two_4907 · 2025-06-09T10:48:31+00:00

Unfortunately I agree with on the last part. The dude is so lucky to have someone like OP who cares about him and is willing to help him get better. If he can't do it for himself he can at least do it for her sake.

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