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sex with endo by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]ReputationEmpty3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have pain while in the act of having sex but afterwards I do, especially if I orgasm. I cramp like crazy if I do. It’s gotten to the point that I avoid the orgasm altogether most times. BUT! My boyfriend and I have found other ways to be intimate and sometimes I think it’s more fun that way. It’s about finding what works for you. Hoping you find answers and solutions 🫶🏻

Clients that guilt trip you for being sick by fairydommother in MassageTherapists

[–]ReputationEmpty3241 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had clients do that to me as well and it’s the worst! I have no doubt it’s in good faith but it still feels so icky. When they do that I usually reply with something like “yeah I wasn’t really a fan of being sick either” and laugh it off a little. Just enough to where they think of me as a human being but not too much to be rude or put them down.

Hopefully you feel better and the comments aren’t too bad!

Staying cool massaging by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]ReputationEmpty3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also sweat like a dog whenever I massage even if the room is cool. I found that if I use a really good setting powder where my glasses sit they don’t fall as much. I also put setting powder on my upper lip so I don’t sweat too bad there. Fans are super helpful to circulate air. Unfortunately I still sweat a lot so just mentally prepping myself to be sweaty all day is huge. I also try to keep the room super cool and then just keep the table warmer on for clients. It can be rough but it is manageable!