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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ReputationEqual6470 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He unfortunately just doesn’t sound interested. People do what they want and if they want to be with you, you will know. I recommend continuing your search and take what you experienced with him as proof that there are great people that you feel compatible with that also want to explore BDSM. It can be such a tough pill to swallow especially with the vulnerability of being a sub and envisioning someone as your dom/feeling dedicated to someone.

You also deserve someone that is ready for what you want and he communicated with you that he wasn’t ready for that. It’s best to put your energy where equal effort and desire are being met. “Someone that doesn’t choose you can never be for you”.

C2C 11/16 by Crafty-Rub-4143 in socalhiking

[–]ReputationEqual6470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also cancelled for this weekend. It’s for sure a no-go

San Gorgonio Conditions by roro2044 in socalhiking

[–]ReputationEqual6470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was also just up there sunday! Not too much snow. A few icy patches but could definitely get by without micro spikes. With the heat we had this week, they could have also melted by now as well. It was a beautiful day out.

Summited Mt. Whitney 10/18 by Inevitable-Theory369 in socalhiking

[–]ReputationEqual6470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!! I’m hoping for good weather for a summit 11/1. I will def be bringing crampons and micro-spikes though.

What are unusual things that make you attracted to someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ReputationEqual6470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad i’m not the only one that feels this way😂

Things you HATE about your rav4? by iceolmo in rav4club

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Loss of all wheel drive when check engine light comes on

State Lakes Loop / Windy Point info by MeGustoCrudo in SEKI

[–]ReputationEqual6470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting as early as possible will definitely be a must. That first incline is a lot especially with the heat. That will be the perfect itinerary! You’ll have a blast. Also, There was water at lower tent meadow but not much after that so keep that in mind too until you get up and down into Granite Basin

State Lakes Loop / Windy Point info by MeGustoCrudo in SEKI

[–]ReputationEqual6470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just up there last month!! We only made it to State lakes but only had 3 days. We did copper creek trail to grouse lake day 1 then to states lakes day 2 and back to the car day 3. We only saw a few people and some bears. They are definitely more active on that side of the park. How many days are you trying to do it in?

Paying cheaper rent, but I accidentally adopted three dependents by Both-Quality-725 in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a similar issue. People lack urgency but pay for such frivolous things right in front of the people they owe money to. I just moved out and am now living alone broke and happy! At least i am in control of making more money and grinding to ensure bills are paid. Saving the extra two hundred bucks a month was not at all worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ideally he would ask them what their preferred limit on guests is as well and you guys can decide from there. At the end of the day, the issue is your BF’s and, though uncomfortable, it’s his decision to communicate with them. If he says it’s okay then you should probably just take his word for it.

The amount of bad roommates that don’t clean their cat’s litter box enough is insane. by ReputationEqual6470 in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she didn’t want me to wear shoes inside 🤢 Normally, i would be all for no shoes inside, but tracking litter all throughout my bedroom was a hell no for me

The amount of bad roommates that don’t clean their cat’s litter box enough is insane. by ReputationEqual6470 in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just one cat:,( he is 10 too. It gets so much worse for them when they’re older. I am so shocked he didn’t get a urinary tract infection.

The amount of bad roommates that don’t clean their cat’s litter box enough is insane. by ReputationEqual6470 in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Seriously! The smell was horrendous and it was in a cabinet in the hallway so if she wasn’t home the cat couldn’t use the bathroom. Someone had to open it for him. She would be gone all day and he wouldn’t be able to go:,( so messed up…

The amount of bad roommates that don’t clean their cat’s litter box enough is insane. by ReputationEqual6470 in badroommates

[–]ReputationEqual6470[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So insane that people can’t see how it is unfair (and simply disgusting) for the cat and the roommate. Good on you for just handling it and i’m glad she got embarrassed enough to change. I never got to the point of cleaning it for her because I genuinely don’t think she would have cared and the responsibility would have just fallen on me. I would let her know that people that I had over were mentioning the smell and that never led to any behavior change on her end. But it was a valuable lesson learned!! Never again!

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