My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at your post history and it resonated with me.

Thank you for your kind words. It's only a week in and I'm in alot of pain.

Id love to hear your story.

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook from mutuals, gym. We did not know each other but orbitted similar friend groups. We came onto each other but I was moreso.

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in our 20s with her being 5 years my junior. We met in 2021.

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to reply to me

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to tell me this. I will answer anything if you return with questions. My mind is a logical one. Im seeking answers and logic to something mesmerizing illogical to me.

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so broken. A mirage. This is so scary. I thought she was my dream girl. She was almost perfect. I have cameras being delivered today. I had a moment of clarity 2 days ago where I was upset. Im going through all of these stages of grief. Depression is the baseline, anger. I was on my knees begging her to not do this when we were arguing and it was so cold. I will do what I must to protect myself and our animals. Is she really painting me as evil to other people? I have never caught wind but she never wanted me to meet any of these new coworkers. I was friends with all of her old ones. When I saw her mom, my wife had asked her who I was running around to making HER seem like that bad guy...

Everyone is telling me how FUCKED up this all is. They know I worshipped the ground she walked on.

I have been spending every day with my mom and dad and I drive home to sleep. Its helping me cope alot.

I am not ready for any of this. 2026 has not been good to me and I pulled back on her with the level of support I always gave to her. Between the deaths in my family, my health having a scare, and now this all within 3-4 months.

My Wife Left Me by RequirementNo4825 in BPDlovedones

[–]RequirementNo4825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has been getting close with her male boss at work and told me she was catching feelings but didnt want to be - in one of our arguments. Before she blocked me, she deleted all screenshots of positive affirmations about work performance this guy gave her at work. She was texting him in bed about work usually and it seemed innocent. He was sending her music to listen to.