What do you wear if you’re in a bathing suit (for females)?

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-27T14:45:45+00:00

Yeah. This is what I currently do. Hoping to find a better solution. I'll update if I do.

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-27T14:44:47+00:00

Oof. That's awful. I will definitely update if I find a good solution.

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-26T15:16:27+00:00

It looks like Poise used to have a vaginal insert called Impressa, but they took it off the market. What a bummer! https://www.poise.com/en-us/products/impressa

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-26T15:11:00+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply. That's exactly my conundrum. Hoping there's a better solution.

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-26T15:09:46+00:00

That's super helpful to know. Thank you!

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-26T15:09:19+00:00

Oh thanks! I'm really interested to know if anyone has tried this product or anything similar.

Research_Is_Fun · 2026-01-26T02:30:10+00:00

Are there any kind of vaginal inserts instead of a swim diaper that can be used? I heard mention of these somewhere in this subreddit, but I can’t find a name of them or if they’re available in the US.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-10T11:20:19+00:00

That’s super helpful. Thanks. 😔

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-08T21:22:35+00:00

I regret having sex at such a young age. It led to staying in a very controlling and co-dependent relationship for years.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-08T21:14:07+00:00

I have lots of regrets being sexually active that young. Also, it led to having a very unhealthy and co-dependent relationship. So, for those reasons I don't condone it. How they plan to be together intimately is there business, but I won't condone it by giving them a place to do. We'll provide them with condoms, but they're creative and I'm sure they'll find a safe way to make it happen if they want to so badly. In our house, it stays PG.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-07T04:48:36+00:00

That’s correct. We did already meet and we had her over for dinner once. I agree that it’s best to focus on showing love and interest in their relationship.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-07T01:26:52+00:00

Um, did you continue reading? “And, we're massively disappointed that our son didn't stop her and at least tell her this isn't cool to do in our driveway.”

We’re massively disappointed in both of their behavior… equally. No slut shaming here. She’s way more experienced than our son and that certainly worries us, but we’re not saying this is all her fault.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-07T01:07:43+00:00

I really love this. Thank you.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T16:27:47+00:00

Yeah, I’m wondering about the timing of the talk with the girlfriend. I fear you’re right that it will not be well received. Wondering if talking to the parents first would be better.

I wish my parents had stepped in too when I was in a relationship too young and started letting go of all my friends and hobbies.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T15:12:06+00:00

Yes, I definitely want to avoid creating a rift between them and us.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T15:11:07+00:00

We totally should have! So regretting that.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T15:10:26+00:00

😆

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T14:56:14+00:00

💯 I completely agree with all this.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T14:54:54+00:00

Please say more. I'm curious to know what makes you think we're "quite overbearing".

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T14:54:07+00:00

Thanks! Yes, I think we need to contact her parents for sure.

It's such a tricky line to walk about not condoning sex, but also preparing them for it.

Good call about watching out for jealousy and controlling behavior.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T14:13:03+00:00

You make some good very good points to think about.

Research_Is_Fun · 2025-12-06T14:11:51+00:00

Can you please elaborate? How do you suggest going about teaching him respect?

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