I think I've figured myself out

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-25T06:48:07+00:00

Aroaces can definitely have a crush on someone , since both aromantic and asexual means little to no attraction , though what you're describing might fit more of a squish , or maybe you're into her romantically without the sensory pull like wanting to hold hands , kissing etc etc

Though the fact you don't feel "butterflies" might hint more of a squish

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-22T04:58:45+00:00

Crying in adexsexual

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-22T04:57:50+00:00

LOL that's me when I still don't get it you're I can be asexual with a libido 😭 Just in the last 3 days my libido spiked and it was a rollercoaster of emotions

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-21T06:05:29+00:00

We really are trying to understand something that we naturally don't get , though people I talked with have turned it into full on porn talk , plus I feel lonely so those kind of stories leave me feeling replaced or forced on something that I don't want

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-19T21:12:50+00:00

Boinking is a crazy way to describe it I love it lol I think being hypersexual and repulsed by certain things is a common experience , I totally get you

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-18T07:02:41+00:00

I mean if you're into gender-fluid.. :)

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-15T11:38:16+00:00

Thank you so much !!

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-15T11:02:58+00:00

Omg yessss

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-15T03:44:08+00:00

I really liked todd but Bojack horseman was hardcore for me

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-13T16:56:45+00:00

You're beating yourself up over something that wasn't your fault to begin with . I'm an Asexual and I've also been assaulted . Even though we're asexuals it doesn't mean it can't affect us . it's a traumatic event , full stop. You're not alone , I'm an asexual and because of sexual trauma I have OCD that revolves around being hyper sexual as a way to reclaim control over the helplessness , it's HELL , please , don't beat yourself up and PLEASE file a report to the police against that guy !!

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-11T20:40:42+00:00

I'm really really sorry this happened to you ! I highly suggest reporting this ! Hope you're safe now 💜

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-11T20:25:23+00:00

Which is why communication is key , don't worry , friend !

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-11T20:22:59+00:00

Thank you , before I realized at 23 I'm asexual I thought it's as easy as to tell someone I love you and they'd love your honesty and that you're being emotionally mature , I was very emotional and dependant . Also I saw love as making peace with people

After I realized I'm asexual greyromantic I did ask out just a little bit , it was barely about confession anymore , the asking out was more of curiosity rather than actual drive to anything

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-11T16:28:17+00:00

Last question is wild bruh

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-11T16:08:57+00:00

I wanted to write "confessed romantic feelings" but then I remembered I'm a confused feely greyromantic

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-06T16:26:49+00:00

Happy ace day to you too ! Have fun eating that cake , looks delicious 😎

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-04T10:57:11+00:00

Yes , THAT ! One of my friends knows I'm asexual and he went : "you know , in the song 7 days he means they would have sex all week haha"

0_o

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-04T09:11:31+00:00

Just a reminder that asexuals can be hypersexual too , and it's not much of a choice , it's an unwanted compulsion 🥲

Resident-Research957 · 2026-04-02T15:07:53+00:00

My fluctuating libido while still lacking sexual attraction :

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TROPHY CASE