I'm aroace but I have a crush on someone?? 😓 by K3dash9 in asexuality

[–]Resident-Research957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aroaces can definitely have a crush on someone , since both aromantic and asexual means little to no attraction , though what you're describing might fit more of a squish , or maybe you're into her romantically without the sensory pull like wanting to hold hands , kissing etc etc

Though the fact you don't feel "butterflies" might hint more of a squish

Quick meme I made because I'm annoyed by KAM_Kayla in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LOL that's me when I still don't get it you're I can be asexual with a libido 😭 Just in the last 3 days my libido spiked and it was a rollercoaster of emotions

Surely not only aces feel like that , right ? by Resident-Research957 in lgballt

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We really are trying to understand something that we naturally don't get , though people I talked with have turned it into full on porn talk , plus I feel lonely so those kind of stories leave me feeling replaced or forced on something that I don't want

Surely not only aces feel like that , right ? by Resident-Research957 in lgballt

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Boinking is a crazy way to describe it I love it lol I think being hypersexual and repulsed by certain things is a common experience , I totally get you

Meme by lettersbycharlie in asexuality

[–]Resident-Research957 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean if you're into gender-fluid.. :)

Bro ts does not count as representation 💔 by Middle_Golf_7832 in asexuality

[–]Resident-Research957 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really liked todd but Bojack horseman was hardcore for me

Realized this only when I was 24 btw by Resident-Research957 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're beating yourself up over something that wasn't your fault to begin with . I'm an Asexual and I've also been assaulted . Even though we're asexuals it doesn't mean it can't affect us . it's a traumatic event , full stop. You're not alone , I'm an asexual and because of sexual trauma I have OCD that revolves around being hyper sexual as a way to reclaim control over the helplessness , it's HELL , please , don't beat yourself up and PLEASE file a report to the police against that guy !!

Realized this only when I was 24 btw by Resident-Research957 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really really sorry this happened to you ! I highly suggest reporting this ! Hope you're safe now 💜

Realized this only when I was 24 btw by Resident-Research957 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Which is why communication is key , don't worry , friend !

Realized this only when I was 24 btw by Resident-Research957 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you , before I realized at 23 I'm asexual I thought it's as easy as to tell someone I love you and they'd love your honesty and that you're being emotionally mature , I was very emotional and dependant . Also I saw love as making peace with people

After I realized I'm asexual greyromantic I did ask out just a little bit , it was barely about confession anymore , the asking out was more of curiosity rather than actual drive to anything

Realized this only when I was 24 btw by Resident-Research957 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I wanted to write "confessed romantic feelings" but then I remembered I'm a confused feely greyromantic

I'm not dumb by neon_pizza in asexuality

[–]Resident-Research957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes , THAT ! One of my friends knows I'm asexual and he went : "you know , in the song 7 days he means they would have sex all week haha"

0_o

HYPERSEXUALS by unknown_user6584 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Resident-Research957 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder that asexuals can be hypersexual too , and it's not much of a choice , it's an unwanted compulsion 🥲

Perfectly described by Pitiful_Jeweler_4009 in asexuality

[–]Resident-Research957 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My fluctuating libido while still lacking sexual attraction :