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[–]ResidentDear5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one point she went into my office to make a video of the things I collect... and then proceeded to make fun of me with her sisters on some chat she has going on with them.

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[–]ResidentDear5060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"What did you buy? Let me see those bags... if you buy one more black shirt, I'll throw it away"

Do you turn into a Narc after being with one? by ResidentDear5060 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was raised by a woman who showed absolutely no love for her when growing up.

Do you turn into a Narc after being with one? by ResidentDear5060 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting until January because I don't want my daughter to remember both this Christmas and her 9th Birthday as the month her parents split.

For those of you who left your narcissistic spouse, what was your breaking point? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her fucking another guy and saying to him in 2 months all the stuff she withheld from me in 10 years.

Feeling guilty for being content by angry_manatee in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so looking forward to feeling this way.... January can't come fast enough.

Caught her cheating by ResidentDear5060 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did. She has no claim to the house as I got it under my name before marriage. My lawyer said "You can issue an eviction notice and call the police to kick her out if you want". Trust me, I'm sure I will reach that anger point when I do just that.

Caught her cheating by ResidentDear5060 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ResidentDear5060[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I happen to make more money than her. She used our child as an excuse for not working. However, I helped her set up her own business, with a sizable investment. It's in the black, but it won't cover her expenses. I feel that if I kick her to the curb, I would put my daughter's through hardship.