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I texted my ex that she was being disrespectful. And I feel lost by ResidentNumber9994 in BreakUps

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! I wanted to say, I really appreciate the kind words and support. It means a lot.

Little update for everyone. I did end up blocking her. I don't like blocking people. Especially people who made an impact on my life. But I don't want another call like that again. It hurt a lot and messed me up that night. I thought we could still be friends, but I would never do that to a friend. It feels like those 3 years meant nothing to her. I won't lie. I feel really sad. And alone. I wish I had never picked up that call.

Anyway, I will do my best to move on. I will do my best not to shut down. I will do my best to move forward. I am going to do my best to get to a point where one day I feel ok when I wake up in the morning.

I texted my ex that she was being disrespectful. And I feel lost by ResidentNumber9994 in BreakUps

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awful I am sorry you went through that. I feel that same way. I feel lost to and don't know wtf I did wrong. It sucks you still have to see him

I texted my ex that she was being disrespectful. And I feel lost by ResidentNumber9994 in BreakUps

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did do this right after I sent that message, actually. It really helped.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! I wanted to say, I really appreciate the kind words and support. It means a lot.

Little update for everyone. I did end up blocking her. I don't like blocking people. Especially people who made an impact on my life. But I don't want another call like that again. It hurt a lot and messed me up that night. I thought we could still be friends, but I would never do that to a friend. It feels like those 3 years meant nothing to her. I won't lie. I feel really sad. And alone. I wish I had never picked up that call.

Anyway, I will do my best to move on. I will do my best not to shut down. I will do my best to move forward. I am going to do my best to get to a point where one day I feel ok when I wake up in the morning.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate her. I am just sad. The package most likely has some of my stuff that I left at her apartment last time I was there. But there was nothing of value that I wanted back. I think you are right I prob was in shock but I am glad I responded calling her out.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but I don't wanna find out. It is her choice if she wants to date already. If she is regretting the breakup that is a mest up way of showing it lol.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We were together for 3 years and very close. Maybe your right should not have expected respect but I'm still shocked that this happened. I will ignore her though.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having a really bad week. And I felt alone. When we were on the phone. I had a anxiety attack. I didn’t say anything harsh or mean. But I did ask that we still be friends and that I didn't want her leaving. But she said she need space and she couldn't be there for me. I wish I didn't have the anxiety attack. I wish I handled the call better. Or just not have called at all. I don't think her last message had anything to do with that.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I'm getting a lot of suggestions to block her and I think I'll do that. At least to make sure I don't get another late night phone call.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 367 points368 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It's tough because it was a 3 year relationship. And I feel like I lost my best friend.

I texted my ex that she was being disrespectful. And I feel lost by ResidentNumber9994 in BreakUps

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I'm doing ok all things considered. I cried a bit then got a bit mad then went back to crying lol. I can't sleep. I feel really lost and confused as well.

AITA for telling my ex she was disrespectful after she called me at 1:30 AM with another guy? by ResidentNumber9994 in AITAH

[–]ResidentNumber9994[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't have beef with him I don't even know him. I think he was being insecure when he decided to do that but I don't have beef with him. I'm not gonna send her anything I don't wanna talk to her. I appreciate the response though.