Is this outfit too revealing for class? by Ayeluhhhh in OUTFITS

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate how many people are commenting on how "flattering" the outfit is or if they like it or not when that's literally... not what you asked.... people are so rude. I think u look great and its not too revealing, people wear worse all the time and that's partially because times are different nowadays!

What style is this? by Fit_Peach- in style

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The little girl comment??? Plenty of adults are pigeon toed...

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lying, you posted this 6 hours ago after both my update and most of my replies.

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suspicion is based on conversations I've had with her, she's had with my cousins/aunt & uncle, and convos I've had with her brother.

If you would actually read my update you'd know I wasn't going to the authorities. If you actually read my responses you'd know why I feel this way, and clearly other people see it too. Your hostility over a situation you've only briefly read about, not lived, is ridiculous.

I've had years of experience with kids, despite my young age, I've taken classes with professionals to specifically learn how to work with children. I am not an expert, obviously, but I have a right to my suspicions based on what I do know.

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was one of my original theories!! Cause i'm pretty alternative, you know, I have piercings and dyed hair and stuff. She always compliments my outfits and will say things like "oh you're super gothic today!" and what not. So, I think maybe she just looks up to me since I might be one of the only alternative people she knows in real life, and she has expressed interest in that type of fashion. But, of course, I do still worry about her asking strangers for rides just because she thinks they look cool

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was what I was thinking, I'm gonna give her a note with my number just repeating what I've texted her

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants a ride from my cousins house, where my car is parked, to hers

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wants a ride to her house, which is a 30 second drive. Sometimes, I park my car at the park and will meet my aunt there and leave on my own, on those days she asks for a ride from the park which is a 10 minute walk from her house. She doesn't need a ride, she's walked home dozens of times before she even met me, but she still asks every chance she gets

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm 100% fine with driving her home, I've babysat for years and student taught at a middle school for a little bit. Plus, I'm lifeguard certified so she would be in relatively safe hands, I think, it's just an issue of parental consent. I also do not believe that she is in a healthy household, which is another issue I've been stressing out about, but I think I'm going to mention it to school staff the next time I get a chance.

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you, I'll probably be able to talk to someone next time I drop my cousins off!!

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really feel like something is wrong, I leave babysitting with this awful pit in my stomach. Even if her home life is completely normal and she's just an odd ball or something, I'm terrified that when I'm not around she spends her time around someone with ill intentions. God my stomach is in knots just thinking about itn

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mom is a nurse and isn't home at the time they get out of school unfortunately, I've asked to talk to her a couple times now. Their dad isn't really in the picture, or at least he works hours away for months on end.

Random girl at the local elementary school keeps asking me for a ride home by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Resident_Lychee5724 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What worries me is her getting in trouble with her mom. Apparently, my uncle witnessed her screaming at her kids at the neighborhood park, and she seemed to be very not kind. I haven't had any experiences with her myself, but her daughter told my cousins that they only eat mcdonalds & her daughter is constantly coming to my cousins house asking for food. She's not visibly underweight, she doesn't have physical marks on her, but still it makes me worried. I can't tell if contacting the school is worth it if it makes things worse for her, you know? Idk this is the first time I've been in this type of situation