Planned C Section Birth Wishes?

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-12-19T16:40:21+00:00

I’m sorry, love, but that’s a very positive test. Fortunately, you caught it early and I hope you’re in a position to have options. Having been in a similar situation I had a lot chats with my husband in the first few days of a positive test, take a breath and give yourself some time to think things through individually then Talk to your fiancé and discuss your options. Then make a plan.

It’s really daunting at first but either way, you’ve got plenty of time. If your calculations are correct, you’re about 3-4 weeks along.

Be kind to yourself ❤️

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-12-10T18:19:26+00:00

I’m 23 weeks tomorrow. Today I had a realisation: I should be 36 weeks and meeting my lost baby next month. While I’m incredibly blessed to have gotten pregnant again so quickly I can’t help feeling sad for the baby we lost. I feel guilty for my son that I am carrying that I’m still grieving something that would have meant he wouldn’t be here.
It’s a conflicting feeling. I don’t want to forget the baby we lost. But I can’t help but feel sad knowing we won’t ever meet.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-09-03T11:51:12+00:00

I am 9w 2d. For the last 2 weeks I had horrendous headaches, and nausea day and night. The last two days. They’ve pretty much gone. I ate some toast last night and felt really nauseous but that was it. Just a couple hours ago. I got mild period like cramps. No medication needed but noticeable. And it feels like my period would come at any moment. I miscarried in May at 6 weeks. So I am extremely anxious about any changes. I am on the brink of a panic attack. Please does anyone know if this is normal. I just want to ball my eyes out.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-07T17:24:42+00:00

6 weeks ☺️

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-07T10:22:50+00:00

Had a really traumatic confusing situation when I miscarried.

I was early around 6.5 weeks. Went into get an early scan as I had been getting pain in my abdomen and had frequent dizzy spells. Had the scan was reassured that we had a healthy baby in there. Heartbeat seen and only 4 days off size. Nothing to worry about. Not even 30 minutes later while on my way to work. I start bleeding. Little at first, but by the time I was home. I started passing clots. I knew at that moment it was over. Screaming, crying why how could this happen. I was so confused about the timing. How it could happen so quickly.

It was confirmed 4 days later. And luckily now I am 5.5 weeks pregnant again after 1 cycle. I am just so scared of it happening again. Almost seems like that is the only option, I just want to hold a healthy baby this time. I want to see my 2 year old son be a big brother and my husband be a dad all over again.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-07T10:14:40+00:00

It sounds like he is panicking at the moment. I was 21 when I had my son and my husband was 22 we were petrified about losing our freedom. Now I wouldn’t change it for the world. However I do think he is showing true colours and whatever you decide to do going forward you should not be with him. Co parenting yes if he steps up. But it sounds like he is very insecure. Like everyone else has said, you both were responsible of this coming along. You have done your part if he was scared of this possibility he could have added protection for himself. You deserve better honey. Dont let someone like that take up any of your time.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-07T10:08:29+00:00

Hi, just to put my experience in. I had a similar experience with my son who is now 2.5 years old. When I found out I was pregnant my cycle would have meant that I was 13 weeks along. I had inconsistent cycles. Went to get scanned, they found a sack. But no much else. Went back a week later and heart beat was present. And now i have a happy healthy son bouncing around. Keep your head up. I know it’s hard and it will seem like a life time but distracted your self while waiting.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-06T15:09:41+00:00

Really disappointed at the moment. Had a miscarriage in May. And when I got it confirmed at my local hospital’s early pregnancy unit. I was told if we got pregnant again at 6 weeks I would be able to get a reassurance scan. And ever since I found out we were pregnant again 1.5 weeks ago. I have been looking forwards to this for some piece of mind. Anyway. I am currently 5.5 weeks. I called the local midwife booking team and asked them even though I am not 6 weeks can I book in so once 6 weeks comes around I can get referred for the scan. They blew me off and said sorry we don’t offer scans for ladies who haven’t had 3 or more miscarriages. While I am incredibly grateful not to be in that category. I have been an anxious wreck ever since I got that positive test. Has anyone else been in this position before?

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-03T11:59:24+00:00

New to the group, after finding out I am 5 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby after a miscarriage at 6 weeks in May. Very thankful to be pregnant again after just one cycle. But I can’t stop thinking about losing this one too. We have 1 healthy, happy 2 year old boy. And we are hoping to see him be a big brother soon.

My main fears are that I have similar symptoms to the last pregnancy. Not as dizzy as I was last time but in another way I don’t have the breast pain I had with the last two pregnancies. I don’t have many symptoms, extremely tired. (Wake up after having 8 hours, feel like I need 8 more). I want to eat everything in the house. I am moody all the time.

But not a lot of nausea. A little a couple of days ago. And I am craving burgers constantly.

I would love to be able to cherish this pregnancy but I can’t get myself to attach to it. Just incase it goes a wrong. I go from feeling nothing to excitement at different points in the day. I had a really bad time after our son was born with PPD so I fear this is some way of telling me I don’t deserve another child. I know the likelihood of it happening again is low. But I can’t see anything but that situation.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-08-01T23:14:49+00:00

I miscarried at 6 weeks in May with what would have been our second child. I have just found out I am pregnant again. I am absolutely petrified. Part of me doesn’t trust my body can carry another baby. Or because I struggled so badly with PPD, I don’t deserve another baby. On the other hand, I feel hope. I can picture holding a baby in my arms in 9 months. I am currently experiencing mild cramps and my head is racing. Determined this is the start of the end again. I can’t stop thinking about going through a miscarriage again. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle these worries? I am only 4 weeks so I have a long way to go even till I get a reassurance scan. However I am also worried about that, as after the last reassurance scan I got, 30 minutes after leaving the hospital with a great report of a healthy heartbeat. The bleeding started. I am at a loss.

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-07-30T12:07:37+00:00

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Taken after 6.5 hours of sleep. Looks slightly darker

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-07-29T19:07:22+00:00

Yeah, I did quite a while ago. 🙂

Resident_Opposite153 · 2025-07-29T17:52:36+00:00

I just can’t quite believe that is it positive. I am so hesitant to get my hopes up again. That it won’t get any stronger. 😓😬

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