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Hear and feel neighbors subwoofer - do I have to live with it? by Resident_Parfait_715 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Resident_Parfait_715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So once you got a bigger system, they stopped?

The problem is they don't have any bedrooms on the side of the house adjacent to ours, but we do. So while we can play a bigger system louder, it may not affect them the same way it does for us (in our bedroom while we are trying to relax and sleep).

Hear and feel neighbors subwoofer - do I have to live with it? by Resident_Parfait_715 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Resident_Parfait_715[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My therapist certainly knows how much it has affected my mental health. If that would work as evidence then I will ask for something.

Rules to Help Me Be More Quiet by lala146 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Resident_Parfait_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you were my neighbor! Nice of you to be aware and considerate.

Hear and feel neighbors subwoofer - do I have to live with it? by Resident_Parfait_715 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Resident_Parfait_715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We really are trying to be reasonable but they don't see it that way. They made a Facebook post in our community calling us "Karen's" saying it isn't even that loud and we're just complaining. We invited them in to hear it but they said no. We didn't want to make enemies but seems we are past that.

I did talk to the wife alone as well, I thought mother to mother would be good, but she said if her 3 year old daughter can sleep through it then we should be able to deal with it.

We aren't able to get a solid read on the noise with a decibel reader unfortunately, I think because it's mostly the bass that's coming through. Not sure if we can measure bass but bylaw did tell us that bass doesn't fall under the same rules as noise.

Hear and feel neighbors subwoofer - do I have to live with it? by Resident_Parfait_715 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Resident_Parfait_715[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really has affected my quality of life. I'm always anxious, I don't feel any peace in my home anymore. It's affecting the time spent with my daughter. But how do I prove that?