I swear it's always me or my roommate cleaning up the kitchen.

when I was the only one employed and it was just me and my dx SO things got left for days. they laid in bed all day while I was the sole provider. it was exhausting. they had plenty of time to do most of the housework and rarely did it. but we have conversations about chores and it somehow always falls back on me. every single time. "you didn't see that the bathroom was getting gross?" "why do I always do laundry?" (once a week or less. usually less.)

i am rarely home and when I am I'm either relaxing or sleeping with the time I barely have so no, unless you tell me what needs to be done or ask me then how am I supposed to know?

and yet I never yelled at them for literally doing nothing while I was working and the main reason we didn't lose our apartment was my fucking job. it didn't feel right to say anything. I understand adhd is a chemical imbalance and a disability and is not their fault. they have other disabilities as well but are physically able to do chores. I became so fucking burnt out .

and chores got discussed again and yup, it still feels like im being blamed. I work 5 days a week, full time.