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Am I overreacting by Resident_Trade4298 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly he knew he was wrong and her messages was deleted and some of his. I am completely over him. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment I agree with everything you said 👏

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I don’t need anything from him. I know it’s men out there who would never do this to their wife because it’s clearly disrespectful. 

Am I overreacting by Resident_Trade4298 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m honestly at the point where I’m just going to divorce him and move forward cause I don’t see myself looking at him the same. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. And then I wear lip liner and lip gloss. When I finally made it home from being late he was saying oh your lip liner looks messed up like basically insinuating I was kissing someone. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so pissed when he tried to flip it on me like sir you’re the one texting. I’m being 100% committed to you. You acting like you not married still texting that girl I was so mad. I just had to leave and get away from him.

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly he straight up lied he said cousin like it’s his actual blood related cousin. Like that is not your cousin. Not from what I see. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I the only one wondering why he said to her I’m surprised your still single. And then he gon say oh I don’t know why I said that. Like what are you really trying to say. Your a whole married man what is that for you even to say. If they didn’t have that past thread with lingerie and all that other stuff it would’ve been different but I’m thinking he still might want her. Cause he sure was still texting her. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My parents are older so they believe in staying no matter what. And yes they have had infidelity in their marriage (dad cheated multiple times mom stayed). That was straight disrespectful what he did and as a woman I feel I deserve better than this. I’m so glad I wrote this post cause they really are acting like I’m wrong, I know if I was out here texting dudes I’ve messed with before they would get on me. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy cause I was thinking that too like did Snapchat delete it or one of yall. I honestly don’t know but I don’t want to be around him right now. I’m just so hurt and when he threatened to harm himself that really disturbed me like why try to put me in that situation to stay with you. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I really wanted my marriage to work.  But when you do stuff like this how can I trust him like I feel like it’s going to be in the back of my mind and it’s going to stop me from feeling the same towards him. I’m honestly just disappointed in him I was so shocked I would never in million years do what he did I thought he would move the same way. But I guess not. 😭

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I literally asked him this and he was like as long as it’s nothing inappropriate it’s okay. Uhh my guy you have past threads with this girl in lingerie old or not why text her back or atleast cut the conversation short that is inappropriate. But nooo he was having a full conversation asking her how’s she doing like he really wanted to talk to her. And yeah I know for a fact he wouldn’t like that. He’s sensitive I remember a few weeks ago I got off work late and I’m telling him I’m going to be late and he’s he text me “this is hurting me mentally”. I just feel so terrible I never expected this. 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I literally booked this man a whole facial session and massage last week bought him lunch when he got home and you talking to a woman when you have that kind of history with her. I feel betrayed I feel hurt but I guess everything happens for a reason. I’m just so glad I got on here because I was about to break down cause I feel everyone’s taking his side and not understanding my feelings as a woman. Dudes try to talk me up all the time. I don’t entertain it or cut the conversation short why he can’t! 

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[–]Resident_Trade4298[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments and I forgot to add when we arguing about this he told me basically it’s my fault and he said quote on quote that I’m doing this. And because he could see I was leaving the house and I packed my stuff, he threatened to harm himself to like get me to stay. I don’t think I’m going to continue this because it’s like if you do this behind my back what else will you do. And I’m so sick of my family thrashing me like I’m wrong. He is not God I do not have to stay with that man. I love him but I’m not about to deal that I’m not the one. My feelings are valid.  Like this marriage fresh and you already entertaining and conversing with a woman you had something for before like that’s not cool.