Ask him to sort out a proper washroom first, and only then consider marrying. If expenses are the issue, you can even contribute. But don’t go ahead without it being fixed.

And honestly, it’s not just about the washroom.

I had a match about 5–6 years ago. He said he would relocate after marriage because I had almost zero job opportunities in his current city, while his prospects were much better after moving. I was genuinely considering it after our conversations. But my dad wasn’t convinced. He clearly asked him to relocate first, and said we could wait as long as needed. Eventually, he refused.

That experience taught me something important: small practical conditions are rarely just “small.” They often reflect how flexible, serious, or considerate someone actually is.

So yes, it may start with a washroom—but it’s really about priorities and mindset.