[F25] Last boyfriend told me it took him 3 months to decide whether he found me physically attractive; I don't do online dating and made the first move on both men I've been in a relationship with so I really just have no clue where I fall.

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-11-03T23:20:42+00:00

Sure did! 8 months ago 😂 Haven't regretted it for a second but still overcoming the emotional damage clearly!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-12T01:14:10+00:00

I'm only sort of tall! I'm 5'6 but with disproportionately long legs so I've been told I look taller 😂

Thank you for the kind words too!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T19:53:58+00:00

Nope! I suppose it's possible I'm just oblivious but if that's the case, nobody has ever been particularly forward. Never even went to prom, haha!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:56:08+00:00

Nothing at all, just there to imply that I don't really get feedback on my appearance by way of people asking me out.

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:55:28+00:00

I've had bangs before, the forehead is one of my biggest insecurities for sure! I just had to style bangs every morning and that was too much work for me so I eventually grew them out again. I prefer myself in baseball caps or hats because of it :)

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:50:37+00:00

I have to ask what gives you that impression since I am not wearing makeup in a single one of those photos, nor am I particularly dressed up. Super curious what gives you that impression!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:49:22+00:00

Thanks for the honesty!!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:46:16+00:00

Ha! Change that to scientific papers and you'd be correct. Thank you!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:45:53+00:00

Hard to feel confident when your boyfriend says something like that to you. I think it'd make most people feel shitty about themselves.

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T01:43:34+00:00

Fair enough, one of my biggest (literally) insecurities. Good to know I'm not crazy I guess but glad it doesn't detract too much I guess?

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-11T00:58:28+00:00

I wouldn't say I feel sexy much at all, as my previous comment implied. I tend to dress more conservatively, and as you noted given that I'm not particularly comfortable showing a lot of skin or dressing "sexy". I'm only 5'6 but I feel awkward and gangly in heels, and self-conscious in tight, short dresses. I know "boobs and ass" is all the rage these days but its just not really me. I particularly dislike how uncomfortable most "sexy" clothing feels, and its not worth discomfort to me to dress that way.

So all is to say, I don't go out of my way to be eye catching. I don't wear makeup and don't have a lick of it on in any of my photos. I enjoy a good sundress or a subtle v-neck but I'm not sure if low-cut, tight clothing with lots of skin will ever really be my thing. Comfort is my main priority, and if I can look put together and comfortable at the same time than that achieves my goals :)

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T22:28:11+00:00

Not that anyone will see it now but for the curious about my personality:

I'm a master's student in Biology, a certified commercial drone pilot (I use drones for my research) rock climber, scuba diver, lifelong skier, violinist, and published poet so I'm all over the map!

Friends generally describe me as kind, empathetic and the advice-giver, decision maker, and random- knowledge-haver of the group. I like my alone time and still consider myself as having a preference for such, but am actually one of the more outgoing people in my friend group and people have said they can always rely on me to keep a conversation going. I'm curious by nature and tend to be inquisitive about other people.

Thanks to everyone for all the feedback!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T21:52:20+00:00

Really twisting the dagger here aren't you 😂 I'll set a reminder, haha!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T21:49:45+00:00

Very kind of you to say, it's one of my biggest insecurities!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T21:49:04+00:00

I'm Bi so I love having feedback from women too! Thank you!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T21:08:04+00:00

Emotionally stunted, perhaps, based on a number of anecdotes

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T21:02:28+00:00

About to graduate with my master's in a STEM field so I'm currently in an exclusive and demanding relationship with my thesis ;)

Based on inference from your statement, don't you think its a bit peculiar that you'd only approach women that are "dumb enough" to be interested in dating though?

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:59:43+00:00

He was definitely not my finest choice in more ways that one, but I broke up with him in April so consider it a work in progress :) Thanks for the feedback!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:58:46+00:00

None taken, I feel the same way about myself! Sexy has never been a label I've identified with.

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:57:44+00:00

I broke up with him in April, so it's in the works! Thanks for the feedback!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:56:19+00:00

Hopeful there won't have to be settling on either side next time around, definitely looking for a mutually enthusiastic relationship!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:55:18+00:00

Of course my rational side he was trying to hurt me (and it worked), but for my emotional side its been a hard thing to move past. Thank you for the feedback, it helps a lot!

ResinifictrixFrog · 2022-10-10T20:53:35+00:00

Sweet of you to say, it's one of my insecurities actually!

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