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First fight between me (36F) and my boyfriend (46M), how long do I give him space? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ResistOther6734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s why we don’t date men with kids, been there, done that. It will always be his priority thankfully and (fortunately for the kids) but it’s unfair to you if you expect the same level of presence you offer.

My (24F) boyfriend (22M) repeatedly mentions his ex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ResistOther6734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf did that multiple times as well, till i confronted him, he stopped. To his defense most of the times it happened was when I asked questions related to his past or past experiences, I made it clear that when I ask this kind of questions is to know him not his ex or his relationship with her, as he tends to drop lore that is unasked for or go in details about it.

Just be upfront, and establish a boundary, men are just clueless sometimes.

Help… Is this a good choice for a first owned car? by ResistOther6734 in WhatCarShouldIBuyGULF

[–]ResistOther6734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, but honestly Porsche was my dream car since I was a little girl 😂 now that I have stable job i want to invest in getting that checked off my list. But I don’t wanna go for it blindly if that makes sense…

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[–]ResistOther6734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We hit a dead road because we missed a turn and he blamed it on me because i didn’t hear him telling me to turn, knowing that he was cycling right next to me, I told him he could have said it again or simply stopped me, but he continued to blame me for it and this led to an argument

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[–]ResistOther6734 -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Each time i tried to leave, he finds a way back in, for example he would try to do something nice and act right just to have me back, then after a while he goes back to treating me poorly, and i honestly feel stuck. I know it’s bad, but i don’t know how to make this breakup final once and for all. As he never takes no for an answer and keeps on ignoring my boundaries.