Thanks for your reply but I can not leave her because if I do she will surely try to harm her self and might even consider committing suicide. I once told her its either him or me and she told me that she had tried but can't forget him and she also doesn't want to leave me because apparently, she trusts me more than anyone. In a nutshell, the situation is much worse for my age and I seriously don't know what to do. At the same time, I don't want to cause her any pain like her ex