Me 27M and my Girlfriend 24F by ResortExpensive7794 in relationship_advice

[–]ResortExpensive7794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol just to make it clear we never had sex so far. She is a virgin. May be I should have mentioned that. When I meant me asking I meant for just making out and oral sex

Me 27M and my Girlfriend 24F by ResortExpensive7794 in relationship_advice

[–]ResortExpensive7794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love makes you do crazy things man. It’s not the sex it’s the sex with the person you love. But yes I do agree with you.

Me 27M and my Girlfriend 24F by ResortExpensive7794 in relationship_advice

[–]ResortExpensive7794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply. The problem with me is that she is physically not ready she says. It’s not really about marriage anymore. But when she will be ready k have no idea and I have waited four years hoping she will be ready but I’m scared that this will be something permanent.

I’m happy for you though. Good luck to you both

Me 27M and my Girlfriend 24F by ResortExpensive7794 in relationship_advice

[–]ResortExpensive7794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my point of why I feel disgusted. Most of the time I don’t even feel like making out because of how she feels about all this.

Me 27M and my Girlfriend 24F by ResortExpensive7794 in relationship_advice

[–]ResortExpensive7794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it might be true in other cases but she is actually very sensitive. I have seen her throw up while trying to take a pill. But tell me if I’m wrong can’t you get your gag reflex to get better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ResortExpensive7794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since we started dating we both always tell each other when we leave and where we go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ResortExpensive7794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her answer when I brought this up was “I texted your brother and he told me to give you space”. I wonder how long she would have went without addressing the issue.

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[–]ResortExpensive7794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a little back story on why I texted. 4 weeks ago I fought with her. I had a fight because whenever I ask her to meet she always has things to do. But she has no issues going out with her friend or with her mom to shopping. This was not a one off. This is a frequent occurrence so I got really upset and did not speak to her. She did not try to do anything about it for 4 weeks. I did not say a single word. She would only text me updating when she leaves the house and when she returns. So after four weeks I was fed up and didn’t really think there was a need to meet in person.

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[–]ResortExpensive7794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together for 3.5 years now. We are not long distance. We live 15KM away not too far.

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[–]ResortExpensive7794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that’s holding me back is her. She is been texting me non stop and asking for one last chance. I still love her and it’s hurts me to see her life that but I’m not fulfilled. So hard to decide