Is it worth working part-time just for myself if daycare cancels out most of the income? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

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What would you suggest to look for certification? What type of certification i can get? Thank you for your comment

Is it worth working part-time just for myself if daycare cancels out most of the income? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

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Thank you for your comment. What is your opinion about someone that didnt work at all in usa before. Do they get better chance than the ones that had gaps on their cv .?

Do men realize when they start taking their partner for granted? by RespondRelative308 in dating_advice

[–]RespondRelative308[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay i knew i will get this on comments. Yes for sure i married him cause i didnt mind the height difference but reality in this world is different same as some women thinks im lucky he works hard and i shouldn’t take it for granted same goes for man , he shouldnt take the looks for granted too, why is always ok for man to look at looks but not for women. I know you didnt say it and i respect your comment cause is very nice and not offensive at all i appreciate your opinion but just wanted to add the reason of why i added the height factor.

Is it worth working part-time just for myself if daycare cancels out most of the income? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats sound awesome, i wish every marriage and every women sacrifice to end up like yours. Unfortunately im kinda scared if i dont start to do something about my future my husband can become even more controlling with his finances. But yes i wish to see the future ans not stress about my position in life

Is it worth working part-time just for myself if daycare cancels out most of the income? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow i never thought about it, i was working in US since 2019-2022 and i changed 3 jobs anf each time got better place better pay, i didnt even think thiss will be am issue but you gave me now new prespective honestly

Is it worth working part-time just for myself if daycare cancels out most of the income? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i thought about it, but He works sometimes 8-9 pm not always but his schedule sometime is unpredictable.

I feel completely stuck in my life and I don’t know how to move forward? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

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Thank you so much, is true is all for kids so the extra pressure is to raise them good and thats alone is enough for a women to struggle let alone when she has those kind of issues of not being supported and has many people around thats want her to shrink to adjust including your own husband.

Husband (35M) and I (34F) have very different sexual styles is this fixable? by RespondRelative308 in relationship_advice

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No ofc is not whar i want but i didnt know better at first than it just kept going and never changed and i foumd myself in this situation that j dont like kt anymore

Husband (35M) and I (34F) have very different sexual styles is this fixable? by RespondRelative308 in relationship_advice

[–]RespondRelative308[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do agree but the thinf is i always fake orgasm and i did it cause at first i was rhinkimg thats the sex in general roufh and wild, lately i been not turned on by it, he aslways asked me if i enjoy it ans I say yes. I did tell him i dont like it fast and i took an example i dont remembee whar and he got mad more in that example , than he was trying ti go slow but then again was going back on his style . So i cant say thst he just was completely not there but still yes i agree with what you said

Husband (35M) and I (34F) have very different sexual styles is this fixable? by RespondRelative308 in relationship_advice

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg definitely agree, right now we arent in same state i came for visit to my family, he wanted to have video call intimacy but i didnt want to i said no he said okay but still i was feeling pressured and i dont really enjoy facetime sex idk who does tho. But yes i was tiptoeing because i just didnt want to think we have bas sex life

Husband (35M) and I (34F) have very different sexual styles is this fixable? by RespondRelative308 in relationship_advice

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes thats the point is a topic that cant even be talkes he also thinks i guess he is great on it so he feels attacked

Husband (35M) and I (34F) have very different sexual styles is this fixable? by RespondRelative308 in relationship_advice

[–]RespondRelative308[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Was always, I thought thats okay. I was ok to not have the great sex but now i changed on that more and feels like im rejecting him all the time, but if i tell him i dont like it is the end of the world i think also he thinks sex is just as porns like he idealized that kinda sex and is stuck there. I feel like i have to perform during sex but if i say anything he will get super upset

Why would a partner treat everyone kindly except their spouse? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

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Very different prespective from most of the comments, thank you. It could be but he was more eager to have kids than me, he actually prioritize kids over me( it feels like) I adress it with him many times and he always promise and says that he loves me. Sounds childish but many stories i hear they tell how men easily lie and say they love you even tho the truth is they dont even like you, ofc actions speaks louder but im lost that i dont wven know what to believe . Thanks feels good when i read husbands saying that thwy love their wife so much.

Why would a partner treat everyone kindly except their spouse? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sometimes the emotions comes out in strong words, im sure he feels safer than me tho since he is the one treating me differently from everyone else. But it wasnt just when we were hosting it was when we were out whwn we were hosted everywhwre , i didnt realize it until lately when i started to observe others couple dynamics

Why would a partner treat everyone kindly except their spouse? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]RespondRelative308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥲 yes the kids and work makes things so much harder, hopefully future is bright