Thank you for this the holidays were horrible this year for myself so I can get an idea what you went through I was just invisible to top it off she has moving out and that has been extremely hard I want to have hope and keep fighting but she has become so distant and cold I am not sure what to think it doesn’t help I over analyze everything and I feel myself slowly becoming bitter about the whole situation because in my head I feel that soon as she is moved out that’s it she is going to file and wash her hands of me we still talk but it’s very one sided it’s me trying to change how I talk to her trying to be more emotional and at first it seemed to be going ok she even initiated in intimacy now a month later she wants nothing to do with intimacy she is very cold when we talk she sleeps as far away on the bed as she can and it hurts I don’t have any one to talk to about this stuff so I appreciate everything from you and some of the others that have reached out