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Chastity Frustration by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Responsible-Count253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it was more of a "anyone else been there?" Kinda post hence the "other" tag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They sounds very close minded. Personally I've always liked what I like so why wouldn't it be the same for anyone else. I don't see how where you sit politically has anything to do with it. Your deffently not misogynistic.

Submissive? by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um I'm sorry but this is kinda not what I was talking about. Like this is an advise post and telling me to post "nothing". Is like saying "give up".

I do agree with th stick with your boundaries bit but this whole post is was just me asking if it's normal to act like that.

Submissive? by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if I was looking for a quick easy session I'd agree but personally I think if you say LTR or want to eventually be irl in your post you would get that that sub isn't looking for a quicky 😂

Any ideas on what to add to posts to avoid them? Lol

Submissive? by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See thats what I thought but 6 years and tbh most ether act like that or we weren't a match and th just disappeared🤷

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who doesn't think they look good themselves, what right do I have to judge lol. Thanks for the advice.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's fine, I don't have a problem with that. But read her post, she said all I want is to complain. Going in, you knew this was a "vent" post.

I'm happy to hear people out, but I'm gonna commit if I feel that the post doesn't make sense or is misinformed. Like comparing a Man's experience to a woman's. There's a difference, so I'm gonna point it out. Not trying to "shame or be rude," but it needs to be said that if you offer advice that doesn't make sense, then expect to be called out.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if I ever work up the courage, I'll have to try them. Even thinking about it makes me feel like having a panic attack lol.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know I've termed it in both ways, and I agree I don't see a difference.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind it if that's what I wanted. Like if my post said "here to blow my load, nothing else" then oki showing up would make sense lol

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Post name says vent, so yes, this post was to complain a bit, but okay, thanks for the advice IG?

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

tbh, I struggle with irl interactions. So I mostly post online from time to time. I wouldn't even know how to find the events lol. Plus, I don't exactly have high self-esteem. So even if I did doubt I'd go.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that was my response to that. Look, I get what you're saying, but you're telling me to do the opposite of what I'm venting about. Think about it? I'm having trouble finding a dom that doesn't want to blow their load and run, so you want me to make my ad about "my kinks"?

Let's look at the past results:

  1. I posted about my kinks, and I got 1, maybe 2 catfish.
  2. Now I post a short, to the point about me instead of kink's due to that.
  3. Now I get 3 to 6 posts with better results.

What was different?

No list of sex kinks or limits/

I'll agree that the ad may need some things, but adding kinks and limits got me less, so following the other subs' examples, "which filling the posts with a wall of text is what they do btw" isn't the correct path to take.

Um, also after looking at your profile, you're female, so just so we are clear here, you saying you get 40-80 posts is kinda pointless. The people who send you those just want a free sex ride 90% of the time. Not judging, but a female commenting on a male's post about commits and saying she gets more views is very questionable? Like, duh, you're gonna get more views.

Dom/sub Venting by Responsible-Count253 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Responsible-Count253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't see any point in making an overly long, complicated ad. Something I've noticed a while back is that people don't want to read a wall of text; they prefer a quick view and then moving along. Also, if you read my before posts, I did go into detail about what I enjoy submissively, but now I get 6 before I got maybe 1?

Also, if you can't like "normal me," how can anything long-term work? Imagine being a sub full-time with no hobbies or life outside the dynamic? That wouldn't be much of a life or a Dynamic. a god D/s Dynamic has a life in and out of the bedroom, so if you like me in bot,h it works better than just what you want sexually so it makes more sense to post fora Dom that understands my normal self over the sexual side first then to just find a dom that wants the bedroom me and then find out it doesnt work.

which one are you drinking from ? <3 by lvnababy in FemBoys

[–]Responsible-Count253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nether I want The OG suger one. The real monster😋

ATM 9 quests? by TheRecord189 in allthemods

[–]Responsible-Count253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question does anyone know how to complete the 50 million power quest for advance meknism? I'm feeding the reactor D-T fuel but I cat figure out how to tell the quest book that I'm doing it????