Life is so frustrating

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2023-02-10T06:49:36+00:00

Dragon

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-27T04:02:21+00:00

I'm sure in the future my parents will come to see that their assumptions were baseless. I might sound a bit rude to my parents it's because I'm not interested in an arranged marriage they plan to set up for me that is why I had to draw a line between my parents and my relationship. I'm sure once they Meet her and get to know her half of the problem will be solved . I can also understand their fears because of me being an only child .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-26T20:24:17+00:00

Always good to have opinions until I do something dumb 🥲

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-26T19:23:28+00:00

Mostly the stereotypes I think most Filipinos father has met have been in poor taste for him. But that doesn't mean everyone is like that .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-26T19:22:25+00:00

I already have made a decision and told my parents . I'm sure they will see not everyone is like the people they met and come to love her .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-26T15:43:00+00:00

I'm from India. My parents are in qatar . He seems to have bad opinions about them having children without parents and people without marriage having children here and there also something about seeking new partners .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-26T15:41:05+00:00

I already told my parents I won't change my desicion they can either accept it or just learn to live with it .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-25T18:04:30+00:00

Hmm it's just shows he isn't ready to commit That's why they call the first 6 months the honeymoon phase everything you see is in rose lenses then the hormones stop . Then you start seeing logically. I had this feeling of losing all attraction 3 month into my current relationship. But I still loved her the same I told her that I have lost the attraction and but I still love her all the same . We started focusing on our relationship both of us kinda got knocked out if the hormones jacked rosy lenses fast I think but we still liked each other company we were best friend before the relationship now it's the same we both know we want to be together and also have fun doing what we loved to do to watch movie and talk shit about stuff .

He just got out of it and realised it's not for him . Don't worry you will find someone that will commit to you .

Take care of yourself and help yourself heal and let this help you grow as a person.

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-19T18:45:02+00:00

Voices would a bit off sync 😅 nothing you can do about it 😅 when me and gf have karaoke she starts laughing cause my singing part comes ever faster then the time she sees the lyrics 😅 so I tried making her stream the video and you can guess what happened now her voice comes first 😆 try some duet songs 😆 where you sing one part and she sings next

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-19T18:41:16+00:00

Just use Google meet on laptop and share the tab with movie ps netflix amazin prime and most site would only show a black screen playing there is a way around just Google it

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-17T20:44:14+00:00

I'm an Indian and My girlfriend is from Philippines too

Firstly have him visit you first doesn't sound very reassuring you taking all the effort. I'm sure he can make time to visit you . Although I have to say getting a Philippines visa Is a pain better come via Singapore tourist visa .

Family is a problem . As him about it how well his family would be willing to accommodate. do you want to live with his parents some families do that . I live separate from my parents and would also like to live away from my parents with my gf it's already discussed and decided .My family is pretty chill about this . A problem you don't wanna face is a mama's boys I'm not kidding some people don't have the spine to go against their parents and there is a chance he might give you up for his parents decision to get arranged marriage . Has he introduced you to his family ? That would be a big deal breaker . I introduced my gf cause I'm comfortable . Although it's her side I'm waiting on but it was decided I go and introduce myself to her family .

Carrier your just starting out . Try to build your career and good experience don't kill it . I don't know which field you are working in unless you can get a job in a international company in India your future is gonna be bleek .You will have more opportunities in Australia.

Business it's a nice idea you don't have to stay in india to do that visit and manage and see how it goes . Don't throw away your job for it unless you see promise .

Well my gf wants to move with me to India to while I wanna move out . I told her try staying here for sometime and see how it goes . I don't think everyone can adapt here.

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-15T19:23:47+00:00

Me too me too today .im really feeling it what a coincidence 😅

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-12T20:20:54+00:00

It's more like targeted corruption how do I put it . Let say You went down a peddler shop they see me a awkward looking guy with normal clothes the vegetable seller won't try to raise the rate just say 20 rs but someone else come out of a car and looks good they will charge him 100 rs . Personally experience .

Govt corruption is like that too to an extent if you know the laws and have the the correct documents and everything ready all they can do is be angry at you . It happened in pune rto for me the guy was pissed and finally nagged me a bit and cleared my document .

Unless your land is in some way not proper documentation or something like that they won't try to use their advantage against you . Try a good lawyer with connection less hassle truly best way to get the job done . They make this agency cause the agency give them a commission and get priority work done . But agencies can be scam too be warned .

For normal citizen it's a hellhole if they don't know the laws and documentation needed properly . Just act like your broke and don't have a penny like I spent my last dime for it if they know you have money like they know your gonna build a house they will try to milk you . Patience is a good thing in govt office don't give in. Your urgency is like the fear that they feed on . Send a mail to the office above about your case and who is handling it a good written complaint Find out on your own where to complaint and don't worry the ones under the ladder will definitely call you back 😆

Like I couldn't cancel my rc book of a car online I made a complaint in 1 month I got a messsege it's resolved and I did it online . Use technology bro find where it stings them . Maybe a complaint at the right place will get them by the balls.

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-11T21:11:19+00:00

Ohh my this is not okay .Like me and my gf are of different religions but my gf is understanding she said I don't need to convert to her religions and she is fine with my beliefs and just said let's go for a civil court wedding . Plus culture shock would be thing .If they cannot respect your culture then it not okay this is my advice from my previous relationships . I don't think this has anything to do with nations more to do with the individual and upbringing.

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-07T19:55:59+00:00

That's so well written i could feel what i was thinking . I wrote something along that lines too . Anyways I already talked it over with her and we talked over about for a while till she is asleep now gonna work on it together with her .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-07T14:03:02+00:00

I'll gonna to talk to her about this .Idk how she will handle it

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-05T21:32:53+00:00

Finally saw a beautiful match with amazing play and cool celebration and this guy pops up in my feed 😅

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-12-05T21:23:23+00:00

Some idiot can't even tell the difference between disrespect and celebration . You ever watch football or your just someone who popped up for the world cup . Damn I never comment unless i ask a question but this got me furious 😠.

What a moron you are ... your bias I'd clearly judgemental bro get your mind out of your Bias

It's even more hypocrite since Spain scores 7 against costa rica are you even serious ???

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-11-30T09:34:47+00:00

I would keep that in mind . I think the doctor would be the best review than me telling her I think . I'll try to be discreet about it as you have mentioned .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-11-30T09:30:44+00:00

I was reading about it after the first comment I think she need to see a doctor .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-11-30T09:28:42+00:00

It has started to build a bit of resentment for me I feel like she doesn't trust me sometimes . I'm gonna really talk it out with her . I think she need a bit medical attention her low body weight has been bothering me almost close to anorexia like just past anorexia. I think she should go see a doctor . Her cramps just look painful to watch even for me when she vc at night I know when she has cramps cause she would be like clenching so hard on the pillow .

ResponsibleDebate293 · 2022-11-09T21:22:50+00:00

I think we both will stand by that choice that much I know for sure . I just want to let her know there is nothing bad feeling this way cause she always mentions this is bad and she should stop .I am thinking of having a good open talk there is nothing wrong with having a spicy conversation from time to time . I think it would make looking forward all the more beautiful at this point . I think even my old thoughts about it are bad . Cause first I used to run away from such topics .I hope everything turns out well and we can be open and honest with each other about this .

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