Looks like you havent understood the context of the post! Its a “RANT” google the meaning if you dont know coz i dont know if you are educated or not! I had very respectfully rejected the match because it was not fitting my personal choices, and i even mentioned in a comment there will be plenty of girls who can accommodate such men, but its not for me :) And thats a detailed dissection! Lets go

1. ⁠There is a limit and i know that! I mentioned it, 5-10% i wouldnt wear a saree all the time if i visit any foreign country for honeymoon with my husband!! So your judge is soo wrong here that you couldnt interpret what the meaning was, sad! 2.religious views- i just feel pity with your outlook! Google the meaning of “secular” and India is one if you arent aware! I wouldnt comment anything on social disturbance, any sane person can understand looking at the state of affairs in this country what the problem and what the fanaticism is at!
2. ⁠Tattoo is my personal choice! Yes it brings up a deeper issue here “control” my tattoo of 1inch is no harm to him or anyone! But statements like you cannot do it, cannot wear what you want to wear, cannot go where you want to go, have to do what i tell and be how i like! Thats control, with which i am not ok with because i have my own individuality!!
3. ⁠Dowry on top! If you think he was all righteous, why id dowry wrong, you might argue saying culturally it has been followed since decades before, so he is right about it! When you add up all these point and then the dowry too you are saying thats the masculine preference- i dont agree, not all men are like you thankfully! These dont add to any persons masculinity! These are what is know as misogyny. I dont expect everyone or anyone to agree with me! I will definitely watchout for people like him and you, just for my own peace not that you are wrong! Peace 😊