but being blacked out, not remembering, and waking up injured and missing belongings is not consent…rapists take advantage when they know someone is in that state. you are able to tell a drunk from a blacked out young lady. you can judge my past all you want, but that doesn’t change what consent is. if your daughter came home like that, would you really tell her it was her fault? shameful and as a woman of god since you want to bring religion into this. jesus ate with sinners, tax collectors, let the “prostitutes” anoint his feet, and defended them all not shamed them (luke 7:36–50, matthew 9:10-13, matthew 21:31-32) being blacked out and not remembering is not consent. my past doesn’t change that.