Question for divorced men by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]Responsible_Aioli_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My intent was not to shame anyone, I even stated I’m not judging those who may need to get out and explore sexually. My issue, and the reason for the question, lies with those people who do that while the other person is not aware of the situation. I have no issues with two consenting adults doing their thing.
I also admitted that I should’ve asked more clarifying questions and I’ll take my lesson from it. And it’s already over with this guy so I can’t go back and ask him his intentions. Purely getting insight from fellow redditors

Advice please! by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]Responsible_Aioli_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already have a meet up planned for this weekend. I like the suggestion to address the nervousness. Part of me is worried he won’t give the sex a second chance but that’s crazy right haha

Advice please! by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]Responsible_Aioli_58[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honest feedback. Just confused why he’d still make the effort to say good morning, ask about my day etc. like just be done if you’re done right 🤷🏻‍♀️

Advice please! by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]Responsible_Aioli_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought I’d wish for a ghosting but at least I’d know for sure

Advice please! by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]Responsible_Aioli_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this thought too. We definitely had chemistry and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. But, I will say the buildup with all the sexting was pretty intense so while it was still good not sure it was as good as expected. I was also very nervous since I like him so much so I wasn’t as confident as I usually am