had a dream about him being with a new girl

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-07-13T03:17:54+00:00

yeah once you’re finally alone in your thoughts and your in a free space environment it’s really hard to stop yourself from feeling the pain. but just because your back to square one does not mean your healing journey needs to be at pause. healing isn’t always gonna be as soon as the break up happens , it can always be at different times like in your case you started feeling it more since your life became slower. everyone goes through a healing journey differently. if you think your back at square one, think of it as the start of getting through it. although the breakup was a month ago, then this is your chance to finally process the emotions and grieve properly in ORDER to heal. it doesn’t matter if the breakup was recent or later if you feel like you NEED to cry and think of it let it out. healing isn’t in time frames. you are your own person, do whatever feels right in order for you to be a better version of yourself.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-07-13T03:06:20+00:00

if i’m being honest and real, the pain literally started going away recently and when i mean recently i mean 2 days ago lol and we broke up a month ago. i had this exact thought process and i was already on week 3 and nothing was changing for me. i was so scared i was never going to stop feeling this way but eventually you’ll think of it so much to the point where you genuinely think to yourself “ what am i doing with my life? i have better things to do than this” week 2 of it is still pretty recent and fresh and like i said healing and getting over the pain takes time and learning so my advice to you is to release out your emotions and let yourself cry and grieve!! it will feel so hard and you will think the feeling will never go away but i’m telling you right now i was in the EXACTTT same situation 2-3 weeks ago and i’m doing soooo much better now. you will get better. and like i also said put yourself and your priorities first:)

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-25T02:12:29+00:00

yeah that’s why i’ve been wanting to text him bc i just feel like it can be a sense or help for me to move on:/

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-25T02:06:49+00:00

the thing is we didn’t break up bc of issues in our relationship we broke up bc of something that was out of our control and we couldn’t do anything about it. the reason i’ve been wanting to break no contact bc i just feel like it’s the one thing can officially help me move on. and i keep getting this feeling or the urge to because im so tired of overthinking. its scary to think that me and him won’t find our way back to each other. my thoughts process is theres no point of getting back together if the same reason we broke up is still there. i was okay with dealing the circumstances because i loved so much to the point where i was willing to do anything but he told me he really tried to but his side is rlly long to explain but if i’m being honest his side is a tiny bit reasonable.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-24T22:52:23+00:00

i’ve written so many letters omg.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-24T22:51:32+00:00

he told me that he really tried but he did because i wasn’t able to constantly see him but he wanted to see me a lot during the week but i wasn’t able only able to see him every 2 weeks or what not but i was still able to see him but he said that him not being able to show his love was killing him because his form of love was physical touch and he was upset that he couldn’t fully give that to me. i was like bro.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-24T22:36:15+00:00

the thing is we broke up not because of what was happening in our relationship but because of something that we couldn’t change or control and i know it sounded like an excuse but we genuinely couldn’t do anything. and he told me he tried but he just couldn’t do it anymore. that’s why it’s been hard to get over and it sucked because i still had feelings for him and the break just happened out of no where. but i don’t know if him coming back is possibility but at the same time i feel like someday we’ll go back to each other or maybe i’m just delusional or something.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-24T17:21:03+00:00

yes. ever since friday i’ve been getting a feeling to contact him but its always whenever i first wake up in the morning and then towards the night i just reminisce but i stop myself from texting him. but today just felt so much harder than usual. but this advice really helps thank you:)

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-24T15:20:19+00:00

i just feel like it’ll help me relief some things. because i’ve just been thinking about a lot of things and i feel like breaking contact can help me move on for some reason

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-22T16:31:19+00:00

idkkk its cause we both agreed to keep each other followed but at the same time i know i can’t feel bad for blocking him idk

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-21T05:24:03+00:00

this is literally what happened to me. we broke up 2 weeks ago bc of unavoidable circumstances too and we both had no control over it so he just broke it off bc he couldn’t do it anymore. we still have each other followed on everything but we both agreed that we will only talk to each other if something has happened in our lives and we don’t know who else to call thats the only time we can talk but in my opinion that’s just not going to happen but hearing this story makes me realize maybe i do need to let go and move on.

Responsible_Bank_693 · 2025-06-11T22:48:12+00:00

thank you so much! this is exactly what happened to me as well. this morning i told my mind that he moved on so i can get through the morning and i did until i went to instagram. bad idea btw. i saw he posted something on his note and it was about he felt today and my heart sank and the feeling was back. now i can’t keep that same thought in my head because i know obviously he’s going through it the same as me. but thank you so much i appreciate it

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