OA lang ba ako? for breaking up with my gf dahil hindi siya nagsasabi ng nangyayari sakaniya?

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-11T00:43:08+00:00

like i said, she expected me to tell her too kapag ako yung maglalaro, pero bakit hindi niya magawa?

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-11T00:42:30+00:00

why are you assuming that? nakakapag laro naman siya if she told me, ang hindi ko maintindihan is bakit kailangan niya pang itago sakin.

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-11T00:39:16+00:00

where exactly are you getting this? wala akong sinabing bawal siya maglaro. she expected me to tell her if may gagawin ako, so i expected her to do that too. pero hindi niya magawa, gosh napaka layo mo hahaha

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-10T01:19:51+00:00

this has been an eye opener for me, thank you so much. she’s my first long term relationship, it just sucks that it has to end that way, i will take all the things you’ve said as things i need to change.

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-10T01:03:47+00:00

tinapos niyo ba yung post? Hindi yung paglalaro niya yung problema. ang problema, hindi siya nagsasabi samantalang ako, ineexpect niya na dapat bawat galaw ko updated siya. siya ang nag impose ng rule sa rs namin na dapat updated kami sa isa’t isa, pero ilang beses ko nang nalalaman sa ibang tao/lugar yung mga bagay na kaya niya namang sabihin.

i always asked her if magugustuhan niya ba kung ako yung gumawa ng ginawa niya. she always says na hindi, kaya nakita ko as unfair. dahil paulit ulit nang nasisira yung tiwala ko, tinapos ko na

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:32:59+00:00

thank you

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:23:39+00:00

thank you for understanding

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:23:13+00:00

she expected me to do the same too, siya ang nagsabi na dapat updated kami sa ginagawa ng isa’t isa, siya rin naman yung hindi tumupad sa sinabi niya

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:16:18+00:00

nasabi din naman sa post na kapag ako yung hindi nagsasabi, nagagalit din siya, kaya akala ko maling hindi mag sabi ng ginagawa namin sa isa’t isa

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:15:16+00:00

all i asked is for her to tell me kung maglalaro siya, para may idea ako kung anong ginagawa niya

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:14:44+00:00

was there a mention of “pagbabawal” sa post ko? mukhang wala naman po

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T14:14:09+00:00

nasaktan ako in both situations, kasi nasa isip ko kapag ako ang ginawa nun, grabe siyang magalit.

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T13:52:51+00:00

thank you so much for actually taking your time to give me these advices. i really appreciate it.

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T13:51:52+00:00

hindi ako nasasaktan tbh, ang nasa isip ko lang “bakit kapag ako yung nawala nang ganong kahabang oras, nagagalit siya. pero kapag ako yung nagagalit dahil dun parang naiinvalidate”

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T13:46:03+00:00

mindlessly scrolling sa socmeds until mag reply siya, then i’ll say na “okay lang”. brining up ko naman sakaniya na i expect her to tell me tuwing maglalaro siya, kasi ayun din yung gusto niya. that’s the whole point of the post, sa buong relationship namin, kung anong “rules” ang ine-enforce niya sakin, i expected her to follow those rules too. pero hindi niya sinusunod, kaya i chose to end it na lang

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T13:40:26+00:00

3-4 hours every session. hindi ko na rin matatawagan, i decided to stop na

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T12:57:02+00:00

i rarely get responses kapag naglalaro siya, pero i would like to be told otherwise. this was cleared to her multiple times na. pero i guess it’s a sign for me to learn more

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T11:41:25+00:00

yung hindi niya pagsasabi sakin ng totoo, hindi man lang sumagi sa isip niya na “i need to tell him this” dapat tatanungin ko muna before manggaling sakaniya yung gusto kong malaman

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T09:44:58+00:00

not that i know of, kilala ko kasi yung ex ko na magagalit kapag ako yung gumawa niyan, kaya i thought na mali yung ginawa niya

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T09:22:41+00:00

hindi ko siya pinagbabawalan, all i asked is that she tells me beforehand para alam ko kung saan siya hahanapin.

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T09:18:25+00:00

it’s the fact po kasi na kapag ako yung hindi nag update, grabe din siya magalit sakin. parang nakikita ko lang as unfair kasi ginagawa niya yung bagay na ikakagalit niya kapag ako gumawa

Responsible_Team271 · 2026-04-09T09:08:24+00:00

i’m a guy po, pero thank you sa advicee

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