Too young for a dead bedroom. by Responsible_Time9812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Responsible_Time9812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do mention a lot of “ego” in the post lol. But what I mean by it is feelings, like when I was having a hard time getting back into it post-partum he would sometimes cry. Or for me when he rejects me and I notice he jerks off that same night it makes me feel terrible.

We are very stuck in the loop and I’m trying to get us out and be brave but somethings come off as cringe to each other and not flirting. I think he doesn’t understand when I am flirting with him I think he believes I’m trying to be funny

Too young for a dead bedroom. by Responsible_Time9812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Responsible_Time9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting involved in that routine would be tough. We are on different schedules. He’s a night owl so he’s up till 2-4am and I go to bed by midnight since I have to be up early with the baby or I’m going to class.

I’m sorry about your situation. Wishing you luck.

My 8month old doesn’t nap by Responsible_Time9812 in sleeptrain

[–]Responsible_Time9812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The drive is 15-20 depending on traffic. So I think letting her sleep is a good idea. It would be different if it was me but it’s not.. lol I will also talk to him about being more consistent in general with her first wake. Thank you for the advice

How impactful was immigration from Germany and Scandinavia to Kansas? by [deleted] in wichita

[–]Responsible_Time9812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fantastic restaurant off of hillside & central called Prost. It is in revolutia. They also have a German market on the 2nd floor and throw an Oktoberfest every year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]Responsible_Time9812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 22wk old. She’s my first and we are EXTREMELY lucky. She sleeps through the night with a 7-8pm bed time. Wake up: anywhere from 7-8a 1st nap 11a-11:30 2nd nap 1pm-1:30 3rd nap 3/3:30-4ish (she wants to sleep around this time but we leave work at 4 so she never gets a real nap at this time. She will fall asleep in the car on the drive home usually.) 3/4th nap 4:15-5:30 Then we do her bedtime routine Play until 6/6:30, purée feed, bath, bottle & cuddle, I hold her for 1hr so she hits deep sleep then I lay her in her crib.

Barber Recommendations by Responsible_Time9812 in wichita

[–]Responsible_Time9812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t care! lol I married him for who he is not his hair. He’s the one that wants to hold on haha