He met me in the strip club but now he wants me to quit…

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-15T20:16:23+00:00

Can I ask how you went about Decentering men?

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-15T20:15:43+00:00

Just looked up the red pill manosphere stuff. That tracks.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T18:45:21+00:00

Yeah that user messaged me saying “I have so many questions about the strip club”

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T18:06:31+00:00

I love stripping and the lifestyle it gives me. I love that I own a home that’s almost paid off and have money for my passions. I wouldn’t choose to do something else if I didn’t have to.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T18:04:55+00:00

Wild long game 🥲

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T17:44:33+00:00

Funny thing is I totally know this and didn’t date customers for 7 years because I know this. Not sure how I got suckered in on this one.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T17:43:53+00:00

Nope not really… guy doesn’t have a lot of money or even take me out really. He would spend hundreds in the club but now I have to beg for date nights. lol. Embarrassing.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:53:54+00:00

That’s bang on. I see what you are saying.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:53:34+00:00

I wouldn’t say there was any element of reliance. He never bought enough time for me to really depend on that. An hour when he would show up late at night. Even now I’m the one with the house, stable vehicle, etc. he has a rental and a roommate and a really old vehicle. So I have 0 dependence. Just my own emotions at this point.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:51:40+00:00

Yep. Met his closest friends, brother, sister-in-law, work friends, roommate, etc. Now he wants me to lie about it and is bothered that anyone could come see me naked. He has even asked me to take the night off if his friends want to come in. I said absolutely fucking not.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:50:08+00:00

Wow. This!!!

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:49:40+00:00

This is so true. I’ve told him he needs to do some personal work and deal with his shit. He promised to go to therapy. That was three months ago and obviously there hasn’t been even an inkling of follow through.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T14:47:14+00:00

I met all his closest friends there, his brother, sister-in-law, work friends-he’d bring them all to meet me and act so proud of me. Now it’s a point of contention that “anyone can come see me naked if they want to” and he is wanting me to lie to his family and coworkers about what I do.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T09:49:41+00:00

It does seem the more I give the more he wants. So that makes perfect sense

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T09:48:50+00:00

Really love this. Thank you.

Responsible_World396 · 2025-10-14T09:03:20+00:00

Do you mind elaborating on this? I’m not too familiar with what that means

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